It was a long time ago. Trannyweb was what this online... moreIt was a long time ago. Trannyweb was what this online community was originally called. We had to change the name because the word ‘tranny’ became increasingly toxic and we had to change our rickety old software because the developers would no longer support it.
I vaguely remember we had asked the existing members to come up with a new name and Gender Society won. I think a lot of our members at the time wanted us to distance our community from the other cattle market sites out there so we needed to sound more respectable.Trannyweb was a busy and vibrant community though (started in 1999) with lots of people online at any one time. The forums were the jewel in the crown as you can see from the huge number of threads and forum posts (which by the way, are still available today).
The transition to The Gender Society took place in 2011. Unfortunately, a lot of the long-time regulars who used to be permanently logged in, didn’t like the change... less
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Gender variant (trans or transgender) people are relatively rarely seen in GP surgeries. Many GPs say that they lack the knowledge to treat those experiencinggender variant conditions and, consequently, they are not confident to do so.The first part of this publication provides an overview of care for trans people that is particularly applicable to GPs. Hormone therapy is central to transgender primarycare, and issues such as assessment and diagnosis are also relevant to general practice. These topics are discussed in greater detail in Annexes C and D. Clinical care for gender variant people should be provided within a framework of good practice that emphasises patient autonomy, allows for the wide variety of needs among trans people and is flexible in its clinical responses to those needs. It should also take account... less
Christine your information I don't think ever goes unnoticed, I... moreChristine your information I don't think ever goes unnoticed, I have always enjoyed your articles, very informative and thought provoking.
I just wished you were in the states to give such accurate content, but then under this current administration and political conflict I think you might find it quite egregious,
There was a time in the states when we were moving in a very positive direction, sadly we have faltered and at best stagnated our trans direction.
Huggs Tammy
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I think I joined about 2004-2005, Organised themed chat... moreI think I joined about 2004-2005, Organised themed chat parties, lot of fun, about 2007 I was made head of forums, made a lot of amusing and factual posts even some controversial ones, many taken out of context, but always attracted attention and responses if some were very negative. When Trannyweb became the Gender society I gathered a few people to become site moderators lovely helpful team, keeping the site clear of trolls, keeping the home page clear of sleaze and wiping out literally 1000's of spams. Shame that when I stepped back from heading up that team due to studying and work I was unable to devote as much attention as the site needed many of the site and forum mods just seemed to vanish, lose interest. I will always remember some advice Katie gave mewhen in the early days of being a mod, I was verbally abused, it upset me and I threatened to leave,Katie said if someone on your land line gives you grief, do you cut your phone off. Of course... less
What effect does female hormone therapy have on a male, and how... moreWhat effect does female hormone therapy have on a male, and how soon?
The longer after puberty hormone therapy is started, the less effective it is--but not a linear scale, e.g., results are considerably more dramatic in an 18 year old than a 28 year old, but results are not on the average dramatically different between a 38 year old and a 48 year old.
The following effects have been observed in varying degrees--anywhere from little to moderate--with extended treatment. With effective and continuous dosages, most of the changes that a particular body is genetically prone to start within 2 to 4 months, will start leveling off somewhat within 2 years, and be mostly done within 5 years. The leveling may take longer if the testes are not removed. High levels of estrogen will cause faster development up to a point, but not better results in the long term than moderate levels of estrogen..
Fertility decreases. Sperm count drops rapidly. Sometimes it returns to almost normal if hormonal treatment is... less
It occured to me today that Halloween is the perfect opportunity for the T-Girls that we support (who aren't able to go out dressed) to get dressed up and get out there for... moreIt occured to me today that Halloween is the perfect opportunity for the T-Girls that we support (who aren't able to go out dressed) to get dressed up and get out there for maybe one night only, but it could be a cracking night for her!
So...ladies and gents...also known as significant others,
I am Lori and I too am in the same predicament as you... I too have sat back and asked... moreSo...ladies and gents...also known as significant others,
I am Lori and I too am in the same predicament as you... I too have sat back and asked myself many of the questions you have going through your mind, I have felt the fear, the uncertainty, and I too have questioned my options...I understand that this seems to be overwhelming and at times bigger than you...but I am here to tell you that as big and overwhelming this seems to be to you, it is even bigger and more overwhelming at times to your changing partner.This website as well as E.J. (the other moderator) and I are here to listen to your frustrations, your fears, your stories of triumph and to offer our best advice...There are also many other ways to get a better understanding of what is happening to your partner...I am a great supporter of education...I believe the more education you can get through therapy, reading books, and really digging deep into the psychological side of this issue, will really help... less
This is a spin off from a poll originally created by Lori Connelly (http://gendersociety.com/profile/lormat/action_id/11148/show_comments/1). Cristine, asked if somebody... moreThis is a spin off from a poll originally created by Lori Connelly (http://gendersociety.com/profile/lormat/action_id/11148/show_comments/1). Cristine, asked if somebody could repost this in this particular forum, so here it is.
These were the comments made by various members in response to the poll (at the time of posting).
Please add your comments below
Penny Zenny If there was an option that said "they are all supportive towards transsexuals as long as they dont have to deal with it" would get my vote.
Steven Andersen First... I'm not married... so that does change my perspective. But when I was dating I found most women were looking for a masculine male... hair on my chest... hairy legs... etc... One women said if she saw me dressed in feminine attire that would turn her off. She had no objection to... or problem with... feminine men. She was just not attracted to them. But I don't think you can say... "Women"... as a group do not accept transgenderism. Personally I think they are... less
When Randi initially disclosed to me five years ago that she wastransgendered, I... morehttp://www.identitygender.com/2011/02/09/the-hopeful-road-by-shellie-ruge.html
When Randi initially disclosed to me five years ago that she wastransgendered, I couldn't find anyone who could give me HOPE that my marriage could survive. I didn't even know yet if I wanted my relationship to survive, but I wanted the option, if that makes sense. The general consensus from everyone, including professionals, was that we would not make it. I think that was just as traumatic as the idea of transition at the time. I was in crisis, and I couldn't really tell up from down yet, but I just needed someone to tell me that staying married to Randi was an OPTION, that marriage and transition was POSSIBLE.........................more on the link,.........plus books at:-
http://www.amazon.com/dp/1580051936?tag=gendidenmaga-20&camp=14573&creative=327641&linkCode=as1&creativeASIN=1580051936&adid=0XJQQYX99GYJAYVJCB7N& less
My SO is a transwoman who just came out to me after too many years of being together. I understand her need to fulfill her desire to be who she is supposed to... moreHi all,
My SO is a transwoman who just came out to me after too many years of being together. I understand her need to fulfill her desire to be who she is supposed to be. She is transgender and this is like saying the ocean after a storm is slate blue. It just is.
I have issues with the fact my spouse knew about being transgender and chose not to tell me... but for this post I will shelve this because I have some question I hope you can help me look at in a more constructive way. {BUT I don't want you to think I am some sort of supportive saint.. because I am pretty pissed off she didn't trust me.. and lied to me about her true self...didn't trust me with herslef.. and no one of our aquaintance would have worried about me judging her for her transgender status had she told me at the beginning...}
OK...
My SO started the full regime of hormones estrogen/progesterone/spirinolactone/finesteride this week. I am... less
About 2 weeks ago, my husband revealed to me that he liked to dress up as a girl, and when he didn't do it he would become extremely depressed. I've always known that my husband... moreAbout 2 weeks ago, my husband revealed to me that he liked to dress up as a girl, and when he didn't do it he would become extremely depressed. I've always known that my husband has had femine features, occassionally would dress up for fun to be silly, and was drawn more towards women than men but this is why I fell in love with him. My father was very strict and disrespectful towards my mother when I was growing up so when I was looking for a partner I wanted someone who was sensitive and non-threatening; on a side note my father is much better today and has worked on skills to be a better partner to my mother and a better father to his children.
Back to the subject here though, I never knew that my husband needed to go to this extent to be happy. The way that he put it is that he likes to be half women and half a man. He's attracted to women though and is no way attracted to men. But then there are sometimes where he's expressed where he wished he could just be a woman but he will not do this... less
I just started seeing someone ... who just told me they were xy-46 PAIS .... so ... I'm reaching out hoping to connect with some guys in the same or similar situation.
No matter whether we’re CD, TV, TS, or any point in between, having a friend, family member, or partner, to help us accept ourselves for the whole person that we are, and to... moreNo matter whether we’re CD, TV, TS, or any point in between, having a friend, family member, or partner, to help us accept ourselves for the whole person that we are, and to walk with us on our journey of discovery is the most valuable thing we can possess.
Being transgendered is a pervasive condition that touches every aspect of our lives. Every decision and thought we have, is clouded by our being Transgendered and the fear of being discovered, ridiculed and exposed.
Our condition makes us very self aware and self focused, and the danger for us is that it’s all too easy to slip into selfishness. Constantly questioning what we do and how we feel and what it all means to us as individuals, means that the significant others in our lives are constantly bombarded by our apparent selfishness.
Allowing ourselves to come out of hiding is the hardest thing for us to do. Accepting us and being supportive is a hard thing for you to do. Walking what can seem to be... less
Hi All,
For those who are out to their Significant Other - How do you celebrate Valentines Day...
For me, my S.O. is still having problems when she sees Michelle. She is... moreHi All,
For those who are out to their Significant Other - How do you celebrate Valentines Day...
For me, my S.O. is still having problems when she sees Michelle. She is fine talking on the phone with her, knows and expresses a concern on How the other part of me is doing and wants me (Michelle) to be happy. BTW: - I work most days as Michelle from my home office and as we jointly agreed change back before she gets home (most of the time).
This year, for Valentines Day, I've stayed in male mode for my S.O. However, a part of me is longing to not be forgotten today. Funny how I now long for some earrings, flowers or even a very small box of chocolates. Just something to acknowledge that the me inside is here as well.
How are you celebrating with your S.O. ??
Time to remember and pay tribute once again. Marshas trip to Thailand her SO and the what can only be described as utter dedication and loving... morehttp://gendersociety.com288700&
Time to remember and pay tribute once again. Marshas trip to Thailand her SO and the what can only be described as utter dedication and loving support of her SO, so much to be admired. for those who do not have a significant SO, this site is dedicated to offering everyone, support and advice. Please post here a small dedication to credit those SO's who have been there for you. Anyone get best prezzies from their SO's.?? family?
How do you deal with it? What does it mean? Here is some advice for you:
http://www.krakowpost.com/article/2474
Dear Dr. Ovlowska, Help! I just found out that my... moreHow do you deal with it? What does it mean? Here is some advice for you:
http://www.krakowpost.com/article/2474
Dear Dr. Ovlowska, Help! I just found out that my boyfriend likes to dress up like a woman when I’m out of town, and I don’t know whether to be mortified or excited. Right now I’m just confused. What do I do?
I'ld love to get in contact with persons that are similar to my... moreHello everybody,
I'ld love to get in contact with persons that are similar to my situation.
As i've read some treads here (not all) I found out that most TS were/are married with a woman or had/have a girlfriend.
And although that is a great source of information for me.. I'ld love to talk with TS's of whom's partner is a male. A gay male.
My boyfriend is a gay male and I'm a straight woman in a male's body. We've been together for 5 years now and he was aware of my situation from the beginning.
When I finally told him I want to do the transition he was in shock. Because he never thought I would really do it.
He has been very supportive and even now he still is.
We realize it is a process and we can't look into the future. Of course we hope we can stay together but we are in doubt because he is gay and feels attracted to men. In this case the old me. I'm a straight woman in a males body and I feel attracted to men. In this case him. Which at this point makes me believe it's going to be harder... less
I'm in a bit of a dilemma. My SO thinks that I'm prettier than her, and is causing her to be jealous and upset.... moreHi hi everyone,
I'm in a bit of a dilemma. My SO thinks that I'm prettier than her, and is causing her to be jealous and upset.
We're all girls, and girls want to be pretty. Who doesn't? But it seems to her that I am getting more attention than she is. I think its ridiculous, and thinks she is way prettier than me, and plus she is a GG. I'm just a transgendered girl with a flat chest.
I don't understand how a GGs can be jealous at a TG, when TGs are jealous at them at the same time... I guess it has to do with her low self-esteem, which makes her quite an attention seeker. I've tried talking to her that I am not getting more attention (which is true), and that she is very beautiful too. I told her that she can get 10x more attention than me if she wants to. But she isn't listening me.
What am I to do? ugly-fy myself? Wait till she snap out of it?
PS, I am not pretty. 5'9" with an athlete's shoulders and chest. Plus an emerging spare tire around my waist. Too big and fat for an Asian. less
Hi all I hope everyone is doing well. Heres my problem. I have been dating a crossdresser for over 2 years and unfortunately was not the most supportive right off the bat At... moreHi all I hope everyone is doing well. Heres my problem. I have been dating a crossdresser for over 2 years and unfortunately was not the most supportive right off the bat At first he told me that he was only a crossdresser(which im totally fine with, i even bought him clothes that i thought he would look good in) then after the first year he told me that he also wanted to grow breasts, which shocked me very much! I didnt think i coud handle it and was very vocal about it. I also felt like he lied to me because i asked him when he told me bout the dressing if he would ever want to pursue it any further and he said NO. So i was very unsupportive about it and didnt even want to talk about it.(which i am not proud of) He eventually tried some products to enhance his breasts, i stayed with him and just tried to ignore what was going on. The products didnt work and he stopped doing it. But hears the problem, since then he will not dress around me or share any of that side of himself with me, he... less
Sorry for my slight disappearance, between being very busy at work and my computer not wanting to behave properly I've not bee n online very much - actually as little as possible!... moreSorry for my slight disappearance, between being very busy at work and my computer not wanting to behave properly I've not bee n online very much - actually as little as possible! I really hate to be that way but I'm online all day at work and with my goofy computer acting up I just couldn't bring myself to mess with this one.
I do have a question for you all...
What's on your mind? Is anything bothering you? Having a great day and just want to crow about it? Got a cool recipe? Read a good book? Have you had a great remarkable time with you s/o and are just bursting at the seams wanting to tell someone?
You get the idea...
It's awfully quiet around here and we need to get chatting again. Come on people. Lets talk. Let's be the support network we know that we already are. I'm sure there's lots of us that basically go through the same things on a fairly regular basis.
Ok, it's up to you....
I want to hear from anyone. I would hope we can get this forum hopping and communicating... less