I think that's a really nicely written letter, I hope she took it well.
Telling family is maybe the hardest thing we have to go through, it certainly was for me.
I'm still grateful to the friends I had on this site at the time who read and made suggestions for my "coming out to family" letters.
Please keep us posted with your transition progress, Ayela.
xx
I think the waiting list time depends on which part of the country you are on. But don't be too downhearted, transition takes a long time and there are things you can do to make a start now.
An official diagnosis is not needed to start transition. Find some safe venues and start going out dressed, meet like minded people, practice your make up, find what clothes work for your body shape. Book some electrolysis sessions - it takes years! And above all, do lots of research.
You don't need doctors to tell you it's ok to start doing thse things.
Don't be scared, just be yourself, be the real you.
And if you have any questions, these forums are a great place to ask.
xx
Definitely begin electrolysis!!! At worst, you won't have to bother with shaving again...but I feel it is the most important component to a successful ability to pass and live 24x7.
Best wishes always!
Traci xoxo