I thought Keefs thread was very good. I now propose a thread with a twist on that. How about some ideas from girls to state what attributes are attractive in TAs. I am not talking size of nose or foot etc but manerisms and romantic acts etc.

Penny,

Laudable. Good luck with that one.

K

That is so easy to answer Penny. What I like in a TA is what Keith has always shown me. Respect.
Love,
Marsha

The following is a great start:

Respectful at all times
Manners (opens doors for me, uses a fork when eating)
Chivalrous (would stand up for my honor)
Hygienic (doesn't smell of cars, body odor, tobacco, liquor)
Good grammar
Has common sense
Able to spell (or at least able to use a spell-check program)
Ability to count without using fingers and/or toes
Good sense of humor

Hi there Knickol,

Anyone who has met me will tell you I tick all but one of those boxes. My common sense can let me down at the times, but the rest of them... yeah, I'm good to go.


...but then again, I am not looking for anyone.

K

Hmmmmm, okay then...

Don't act as if we are constantly two minutes from jumping into bed.

Treat me like a lady...please don't paw me.

Be kind to me. I'm emotional, and if you are kind and sweet to me, you will score big points.

Please don't be too late.

Don't lie to me. Lies are poison, and if I catch you in a big one, like you are married, it's over and I might tell your wife.

Treat me as if I am a rare flower. Delicate, lovely and in need of pampering.

Ummmmmmm.....that's it!!

Z

What I like most about TA's is the fact that they "Understand" us. How could any Heterosexual Male ever really respect us if he doesn't understand us. I believe that most true TA's have a more highly developed sense of Femininity than the average Heterosexual Male.

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"and my needs entwined, like ribbons of light...and I came through the doorway, some where... in the night"

Oh this is easy, what appeals to me is good manners, intelligent conversation, and an understanding of the uniqueness of a Tgirl to name a few.

A bonus would be some common ground such as shared interests.

Nikki

What else but a sense of humour? Make me laugh, please.
(Plus all the above, of course)

Wow ani! Thats a question and a half!

I guess, for me, I don't really expect or anticipate what a guy may find attractive in me. I'd need to think about that a bit.

My last boyfriend died 8 years ago, at the turn of the century. He fell down the stairs at his parents home and died instantly.

He was kind, honest, open and loving. I guess they're the attributes that count the most.

And they're the attributes keef/keith displays, I wish there was a multitude of him!

But as for a partner, to be honest, I'm happier on my own. I had a great relationship with a guy for the best part of ten years. Its not necessarily going to be repeated.

I'm happy as is.

Much love

rae xx