Shayla,
You are indeed a lucky one! My ex-wife said that she was supportive of my crossdressing, until I started shaving my legs (and chest) regularly! There was just no going back once I started, the genie was out of the bottle!
But back to the subject at hand. Gloria's query regarding opaque hose to avoid shaving. That is one possibility, but for summertime, it's not very practical.
My suggestion, though costly, would be to have the hair on your legs eliminated altogether. If I could afford it, that would be my choice
After all, there are a few lucky guys on this planet with naturally bare legs. Gloria could then simply claim (when in drab) that "he" is one of those poor "unfortunate" guys that God chose not to have hairy legs. Personally, I would not think less of a guy that had naturally bare legs, actually, I would likely be envious!
Personally, I routinely shave my legs. When asked about it, (which is very rare) I simply reply that "I am involved with a girl that finds body hair distasteful." Which is the absolute truth. I am quite often totally involved in being Knikol. And as Knikol, I find body hair distasteful, as it totally ruins the look I am trying to achieve.
Best of luck, and
Enjoy this wonderful life that we share.
Knikol
Those who dream by day are cognizant of many things which escape those who dream only by night. -- Edgar Allan Poe