Chance to live as a female for 2 weeks!

    • 126 posts
    December 29, 2006 4:42 PM GMT
    if its not too late i would love to do something like this.
    It sounds fabulous, so count me in
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    • 2127 posts
    February 1, 2006 5:26 PM GMT
    Most of us here want to be female. That's probably why you are reading this. However, it's probably not practical for many of us to actually change sex because of family and career commitments or perhaps just because we do not want to go all the way.

    Some of us may feel inside that we want to but are not entirely sure.

    Well, it's been suggested to me that Trannyweb should organise and offer our members a chance to experience what it is like being a girl for two weeks.

    The opportunity to live life as a woman for 14 days and nights.

    For those who are thinking of transitioning this could be a useful first step, before doing anything that is not reversible later if you discover it's not for you.

    For those who have families and careers that take first place, it could be just an opportunity to be a girl before reverting back to Drabsville.

    What I propose is that we find a large house somewhere (like the big brother house) to use for our base.

    Upon arrival you would hand over your drab clothes for safe-keeping and be given a girly make-over because from the moment you enter the house, you would be treated as a girl and would be expected to dress as a female immediately.

    We would charge no more than the normal nightly rate for a good hotel but unlike a hotel the price would include your meals, drinks in the house, and the following:

    * Regular make-up lessons from a professional make-up artist because as a woman, you will have to apply and touch-up your own make-up every day

    * Lessons in deportment

    * Lessons in creating a feminine voice

    * Lessons in passing as a female in public

    * Various talks from trannies who have already successfully transitioned and who now consider themselves to be well and truly female

    * Various talks from other interesting people on tranny subjects

    Unlike the big brother people, we may also have a few trips out of the house for shopping and entertainment - en femme of course!

    At present I m looking at doing this a bit later in the year, perhaps in the summer. It could take place in the US or it could be in the UK or perhaps both!

    I for one, would absolutely love to spend a whole two weeks of my life as a girl, dressed and make-up to the nines!

    Now it's over to you. Before we lay out vast quantities of cash and work on this project, we need to hear from you.

    Is this a good idea? If you say it's not then we won't do it.

    If on the other hand you think it is, we will. Perhaps you have some more ideas for making it even more fun and more useful.

    Please tell me what you think. Please also tell me if you would like to be a guest - numbers will be very limited.

    This is something I've got to do before I die!

    Thanks and hugs,

    Katie x
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    February 1, 2006 5:58 PM GMT
    My initial thought is wow what a great idea - count me in.

    I'll be back when I have had time to digest everything.
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    February 1, 2006 8:01 PM GMT
    sounds like a brilliant idea katie.....count me in!

    love & xxxxxxx Anna-Marie
  • February 1, 2006 8:28 PM GMT
    Katie,

    It think it's a wonderfull idea!! I bet it would go ocer really well !!!!

    *hugs*

    ~Valerie xx
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    February 1, 2006 9:27 PM GMT
    Looking good so far! Keep 'em coming girls.

    Don't worry about the work involved in putting this together in the US - we'll do all that.

    All you need to do is find two weeks out of your whole life to be there and do this.

    Hugs,

    Katie x
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    February 1, 2006 9:40 PM GMT
    Katie,

    I think it's a wonderful idea. For those that are not ready to spend a weekend or a week at a convention with strangers, this could be great. They would be able to spend the time with TW sisters that they probably have chatted with. In fact a special forum and/or chatroom schedule for the attendees would be a great lead in. Fansasia Fair has an email-list discussion going all year where new girls meet and old ones stay in touch.

    If I have the time and money, I would love to go, but can't commit at this time.

    Would this include any optional outings for those who want to dare that extra step?

    I know that coming to TW on a week I had 8 full days alone at home, being en femme without stress, contributed greatly to my being able to open up the femme side of my brain. In fact it altered my entire pattern of dressing. i can no longer bring myself to do it under conditions of stress. It meets different needs than it once did. I believe that your plan will be a wonderful experience for anyone opening up, as well as considering more permanent steps.
    • 8 posts
    February 1, 2006 9:42 PM GMT
    That sounds like a wonderful opportunity to explore the girl inside of me and I think it would be just heaven.

    How about including a fitness instructor and dietician to help with weight and general body shape issues?

    Oh, and a guest speaker to advise on hormones or other meds?

    Even a local hairdresser, (not that it takes much to shake my wig and put it on!) but I'm sure other girls will appreciate styling tips.

    Hugs & xxxx
    Gemma

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    February 2, 2006 4:58 PM GMT
    I love this idea.

    But I did experience something similar a month ago when I went to visit Karen Brad. I jumped into my femme clothes almost immediately and stayed that way until I left. Well, I did change into drab for our grocery run, but that doesn't count.

    Lessons in deportment? Like how to behave like a lady when having a webcam chat? I think I might need help there.
  • February 3, 2006 6:09 AM GMT
    Katie,

    You've got my name on the waiting list already, right?

    Right?

    Phew! Glad you remembered!



    Great Idea! And, I look forward to being among your first "guests."

    Hugs, Hon!

    Kari
    XXX
    OOO
  • February 3, 2006 6:37 AM GMT
    Is two weeks a bit long? Of course it is not my concern, I´m not attending.
    Our ts summer camps are normally only extended weekends, but even so, it is difficult to schedule for some people. You can have plenty of lectures and workshops plus free time together with a few days and the costs can be kept acceptable.
    From the only ts summer camp I attended in 2003 I still have my "Goddess Diploma" on my wall which I got from our goddess workshop studying ancient greek goddesses and our inner self. It says: "Laura is a strong woman who knows her path and she is a loving and caring parent".

    Laura
  • February 3, 2006 10:26 AM GMT
    I would be interested if it is affordable. But not sure about being stuck in a hotel the whole time, as I would want to go out site seeing, shopping, drinking and dancing, etc.
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    February 3, 2006 1:34 PM GMT
    I think we would need to make this two weeks long for several reasons. There are already plenty of opportunities to go out en-femme for a weekend or a bit longer in some cases, but I have never seen a two week event advertised yet.

    Secondly, I think we'd need two weeks to get everything in and we would need that length of time to really feel that we have started to "live" as a female and forget about our male selves.

    Two weeks may not sound like much to those who are already full-timers but it is a start and those of us who feel that we want to explore this route further will find it a very useful first exercise.

    Those who just want to do this for fun will also enjoy it but there will be no obligation to take it further when it's finished.

    And Liz, I would hate to be cooped up in a hotel for two weeks.

    I did say in my first post on this, that there would be en-femme trips out of the house for shopping and entertainment. Perhaps I made a mistake by mentioning Big Brother. It wasn't my intention to make it sound like we'd all be captive in a house or hotel.

    This is all about having fun and exploring our female side.

    As for cost, I'd guess that it would be about the same as a 14 night stay in a good hotel. We'll have to work out the exact costs if we decide to run with this but before I spend a huge amount of time and money on setting it up I do need a show of hands from people who would like to do it so I know we will not go bust in the process - 'scuse the pun!

    Hugs,

    Katie x
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    February 3, 2006 5:15 PM GMT
    So you DID say there would be outings, Katie. I plead migraining, on heavy medication and blonde.
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    • 2127 posts
    February 3, 2006 6:28 PM GMT
    Yes! I would suggest that we stay in for the first few nights so we can all get to know each other better and learn from our various talks.

    Then let's hit the town armed with out new-found looks and knowledge.

    I think we could do shopping excursions and also trips to some trannysafe night clubs. Maybe we could finish up with a day at the races or suchlike!

    Huggies,

    KT x
    • 2573 posts
    February 3, 2006 10:09 PM GMT
    Royal Ascot, Katie?
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    • 2127 posts
    February 3, 2006 11:12 PM GMT
    Remember we're not talking about just a weekend here - we're looking at a two whole weeks!

    Also, because we would be doing this ourselves, it would not be a "rip-off".

    Maybe we could add in a Big Sister element by having some web cams around the place so our members around the world can check on the housemates progress!

    Huggies,

    KT x
  • February 3, 2006 11:20 PM GMT
    Katie,

    Where I work we are a dealer for security and cameras that do video over IP... If you get it going, I'll donate two IP cams! (Professional ones ) And can be put in "common" rooms in the house and used in a link here at TW so all can see the common rooms... And also if this does happen!! I'll have to come visit and enjoy!!!

    *hugs*

    ~Valerie xx
  • February 4, 2006 2:38 PM GMT
    GOD this sounds awesome! Finding 2 weeks to do ANYTHING is impossible for me though. But a Week, or even a long weekend would be exciting!!! I would love to do this and would try to find a week if this was available.
    Huggs to all,
    Riki
  • February 4, 2006 8:11 PM GMT
    Include me too! A lot will depend on cash money, but I think this is a fantastic idea. This is truely exciting for us girls that can't dress to the nines as some of us can. Wow! What a great idea.
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    February 4, 2006 9:33 PM GMT
    Katie,

    I am concerned that there will be two adverse affects of webcams in the house:

    1. Those who most need the privacy of the house setting will not come for fear of being outed by their pictures.

    2. People may find themselves unable to relax on "candid camera", diminishing the fun and relaxation and emotional immersion benefit of being en femme and in femme.

    Perhaps, an hour or so once a day in a specific room where those girls who want to can participate....?
    • 37 posts
    February 4, 2006 10:30 PM GMT
    Katie
    What a fantastic idea, you really are a very clever girl.
    I would do anything for the chance to relax and just be the real me for 2 weeks, you can certainly include me on your list.
    How about a day visit to a spa to be pampered
    Maybe if it gets off the ground 1 lucky girl could do an exchange with an American sister in the future.
    luv Gab-xx-
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    February 5, 2006 1:13 AM GMT
    Hmmm, the issue of two weeks being too long for some is valid. Could some people share a spot by coming for one week each, back to back?
  • February 5, 2006 2:45 PM GMT
    hiya i'm reply to your item about being a girl for 2 weeks which is a brilliant idea i dont know if you know but here in blackpool we have our very own transgender group that meets in a hotel owned and run by 2 transexual girls we meet every 2nd and 4th tuesday of each month and have changing facilites too the group is called renaissance and is a must if your planning to vist blackpool check the website at www.renaissanceblackpool.org i also have their phone number if anyone wants to contact them

    love julie black
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    February 6, 2006 6:07 PM GMT
    I think it is an amazing idea!!
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    February 6, 2006 7:56 PM GMT
    Katie,

    It is an absolutely brilliant idea!! I wish I could take part. Unfortunately my circumstances are such that I couldn't; however, I wish you well and will watch with interest to see how you get on.

    hugs,

    Caroline
  • February 7, 2006 4:17 PM GMT
    I would, but as with most things, it is a matter of money.
  • February 8, 2006 4:15 PM GMT
    Katie,

    I wouldn't mind the web cams.

    But, as others have mentioned, two weeks is a bit hard to get off of from work at one time.

    Perhaps one week sessions would be better?

    How about a voting poll on this?

    Keep up the great work!!

    Hugs,

    Kari
    XXX
    OOO
    • 773 posts
    February 10, 2006 4:37 AM GMT
    Has anyone considered the per person cost of such an endeavor?
  • February 11, 2006 3:12 AM GMT
    As someone who transitioning this year, count me in.

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    February 11, 2006 5:12 PM GMT
    Wow fantastic Idea, I would love it so much, but it may be difficult for mw to be away from work fr two weeks , one week can get away with , hope there is one in US
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    February 23, 2006 6:02 AM GMT
    great idea! would be first time out for extended period for me Would like a week with option for second week -- let us know more details when avalilable
    patricia ann
  • February 28, 2006 7:02 PM GMT

    Katie,

    Any form of your idea would be lovely! I have often dreamed of doing just such a thing. Of course the devil is in the details!

    Many good points have been made here in the forum and we girls all have different situations and needs. I would say pick an option and try it. Then, revise using any feedback that you get iand try again. Perhaps in the long run, "packages" could be developed that meet as many of those needs as possible.

    I'm swooning just imagining the possibilities....I can't make any promises without knowing the details, but I definitely would consider attending if I could.


    Ronie
    • 13 posts
    March 2, 2006 9:06 PM GMT
    Hiya Katie

    Got to say girl, one hell of a good idea there babe!!!

    Would love to trial this out.

    Maybe you could get some kind of live link in as well so that other girls can post messages to the house, at a small cost of course.

    You mentioned a make up professional, maybe you can also arrange make up lessons and deportment lessons for outside the house at another event, I'm sure alot of girls would jump at a chance of getting one to one training from a professional (Me included).

    Well if there is any space left on the massive list please add my small name to it.

    Can't wait to get more infor about this.

    Nicki

  • March 6, 2006 1:23 PM GMT
    Oh what a wonderful idea. I would just love to relax among a group of other gurls who truly understand the feelings I feel. As much as I would love to do this, I'm not sure about two weeks for my first time. If this is the only choice then for certain I would participate if you do it in the U.S. Unfortunately I will not be able to get away for two weeks this year but if it is on the west coast I could do one week in September or October. I like the idea of being on camera but only after I am en femme. Going out en femme is alsosomething I want to do. Oh, let's face it, I love it all.
    • 1 posts
    March 13, 2006 10:17 PM GMT
    sounds great love to try it
  • March 21, 2006 7:43 AM GMT
    GREAT PLAN PLEASE COUNT ME IN ALL THE WAY
    THANKS
  • March 22, 2006 2:45 AM GMT
    I'll be there!!!!


    ~Valerie
    • 1 posts
    April 1, 2006 3:49 PM BST
    I think it is a wonderfull idea, and I would love to be there. Yes you can count me in.
  • April 17, 2006 6:48 PM BST
    Just came across this wonderfully inviting idea. OOOh, how I would love to be able to experiance an extended period (hey, stop chuckling, you know what i mean.....) TO just relax and be a girl and enjoy the company and support of other TGs. It would almost be spiritual, of course I would probably pass on the whole nealing to pray thing........Um, i see that was never suggested.

    Anywho, I think there should be a split option for either one or two weeks. I think I could only afford one.

    Web cam, well a little creepy for me but the idea of having them in rooms for those so inclined sounds good.

    I would love to be with a group of girls to go shopping, would be sooooooo much fun and safer in a group!!!!!!

    I will go to sleep tonight dreaming of all the possible fun and excitement!!!!!!!! Good luck forming the idea to perfection and hope to see it kick off. Getting the time off for me is not much of a diffaculty if know at least a month in advance. THANKS!!!!!!!!!!!!
    • 2017 posts
    April 20, 2006 7:41 PM BST
    What a great idea. i would definately be game. I would learn loads!
  • April 25, 2006 9:09 PM BST
    katie,
    Your suggestion sounds dreamy, and I'm praying fervently that it will be more than just that.

    Have you an update since you original post?
    i.e. time of year? approx. location/part of country? type of accommodation? do you need anything from us apart from our interest?

    Wishing you all the best,

    Sammy xx

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    April 26, 2006 12:17 AM BST
    Dear Katie,

    The idea sound totally dreamy. I am looking forward to more information and the input from the other girls. Please keep us posted...

    Hugs,
    Deriaz
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    April 26, 2006 4:25 PM BST
    I think it is a wonderful idea. I would suggest a week in London and a week in New York. I also think it would be great to finish each week with an outing and a formal party/dance with some men who enjoy the company of special women. Just someone to tell us how wonderful we look.

    As a long time lover of transsgenered women and recent dresser, I would relish the opportunity to participate as a women or as a second choice a man admirer.

    Anthony (aka Jeanny)
  • April 27, 2006 8:39 PM BST
    you can definitly count me in on this. I love the idea. I would love to be with other girls just like me and spend some real time getting the opportunity to not be judged for what I am.
  • May 6, 2006 4:17 AM BST
    Dear Katie,

    This would be a blessing for a closet tranny like me-I would sign up in a heartbeat! I just hope the "help' is skilled, because I need a lot of work!

    Thanks for your ideas, Cyndi Ann
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    May 6, 2006 11:10 AM BST
    Hi Katie

    It is a great idea.

    Fascinating to think of it to be with many of our likes around.

    Thanks and hugs

    Apsaras
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    June 3, 2006 9:39 AM BST
    This sounds like an interesting idea indeed. I would consider taking things somewhat slowly though.

    Perhaps communication through email with some places that offer services like this will give you an idea about what kind of pitfalls can be expected and how to possibly avoid them (for example - insurance needs for the facility, potential financial "unforseens"... etc).

    I would also suggest doing it in a time of the year that is colder. This allows many "closeted" gals to shave and not have to worry about others seeing them in shorts later. It would add to the whole experience.

    I would also come up with some sort of privacy statement, including one signed by each member going to the getaway. The better you protect people's private lives, the more participation you will have - guaranteed. I would even consider outlawing any cameras unless they were supplied by the getaway, and all photos were approved by the individual members in them before release. I know it sounds corny and "stuffy", but it's just good business practice in this situation.

    You will likely find that many people who want the most privacy will also be the same people that will be able to offer you the most monetary support.

    Just a thought though... I may be wrong.
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    June 13, 2006 7:20 PM BST
    This is a really really great Idea Katie,
    I have done this by myself for a week, renting a cottage and being femme 24/7.
    For this to work I think the time must be set well in advance, even up to a year to allow everyone time to arrange thier holidays and thier excuses
    Im also sure with all us talented girls we have all the resources and will power to make this happen,,
    Count me in most definately if you decide to go ahead with this
    Amy
    xx
    • 16 posts
    June 20, 2006 4:18 AM BST
    Any updated info on the possible 2 weeks en femme?
    Has there been sufficient response to make it a possibility. Any dates under consideration?