Then he tried on my clothes and enjoyed that as well. We looked into it and he originally felt that transvestite fit him (we didn't really look past sexual fetishes)
We embraced that as well but he is moving past it being sexual only. He says he feels right in women's clothing. He bought a wig and breast forms and wants me to do his make up as well. It's not longer just arousing, he feels right and now refers to himself when dressed up as Elizabeth.
Now he isn't confused because he does still want to be a man at times but also wants to be Elizabeth openly and freely as well. He is talking about breast implants and I understand that he may be bigender but because we have 2 small children (will be 1 and 2 next month) he needs to choose which side pulls more toward. Either a female in daily life and man in private or vice versa.
That's where his confusion is. He feels that he doesn't know who he is anymore and where he stands. I know this will take time and I'm trying to be as supportive as I can and helping him research and find answers but idk what else I can do? Has anyone gone through this? Is he really just a transvestite anyways or is there some amount of gender identity truly happening?
Thank you so much for any a dive and help