Recent Entries

• Sharp Objects in a Haystack

  by Jessie Hart February 26, 2013
  Let's face it, there are bunches of lonely people in the world and never more than in the transgender culture. Seemingly, we have a couple of strikes against us in the relationship arena before we ever get started.Many of us have intense relationships which have been severed or destroyed b...
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• I'm a "Mutt"!

  by Jessie Hart February 5, 2013
  A very common opinion among dog people is mutts are the best dogs.Could it be a human "gender mutt" could fall into the same category? I suppose in a perfect world that would be great but by now you are thinking "just what the hell is Cyrsti smoking".A transgender or gender fluid person&nb...
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• Slip Sliding Away

  by Jessie Hart February 2, 2013
  Over the past several months or more here in Cyrsti's Condo, I have mentioned a friend I knew from my earliest days as a cross dresser. In fact I was the benefactor from his final purge way "back in the day". He walked away 30 plus years ago and in many ways has never looked back. We are quite ...

• Dating Yourself

  by Jessie Hart January 30, 2013
  Maybe I should say-would you date your old male self? I saw this question on a YouTube video and was fascinated. I have asked here in Cyrsti's Condo would you be the kind of daughter Mom would like or even would you be the kind of girl she would like to see her son bring home? Back...
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• Potty Principles

  by Jessie Hart January 21, 2013
  Every once in a while here in Cyrsti's Condo I try to back track a bit and bring up items which you newer visitors may have never seen.   One of the most important subjects which continues to cause major problems with many folks is the simple task of using the bathroom. &...
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• Sunday Morning Coming Down

  by Jessie Hart January 20, 2013
  Been busy chasing my tail lately. The worst part is I didn't catch it and I wondered where I would have found the time to do all these things if I had not retired!Normally when I go through these times I have bits and pieces of ideas run through my mind which I would like to pass along and...

• Transgender Basics

  by Jessie Hart January 13, 2013
  All too often I read of beginning cross dressers all the way to transsexuals who dwell on the smallest points of fashion, shoes and makeup- there is nothing wrong with that! On the other hand, if you are not practicing the beauty basics in essence you could be wasting a lot of time before ...
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• Mirrors to the Soul

  by Jessie Hart January 5, 2013
  Janie Black recently wrote a post which jogged my sleepy mind called Gender and the Wrong Body.She wrote a very thought provoking post (here) which basically goes into the much debated ideas of why we transgender or transsexual people feel this way.I'm going to greatly over simpl...
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• Magic Carpet Ride

  by Jessie Hart January 2, 2013
  Of course by now we have all made it into the year of the force 2013.The "force was with me" last night most certainly! As my GF said "It was magical"...Thus the title.Where to start! To begin with, she planned all of this. I'm not talented enough to be the "social director".The evening actually sta...

• 2012 a Transgender Journey

  by Jessie Hart December 30, 2012
  As I look back on a very active and exciting year in my gender journey, I thought a time line may be appropriate to attempt to put the year in focus:New Years Eve 2012...took my first Estrogen and Spiro. HRT begins.February...Breast changes starting.March...My private Doctor increased minimum Estro ...
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