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• A "Dark" Sate of Mind!

  by Jessie Hart January 23, 2011
  I had made a pledge to myself to stay red. My friends and I decided the transition from blond was good and overdue. As I have said, I love the color and all the waves of hair. All was good until last night. A bit of the devil poked her head out and whispered "Go Dark!" I had arriv...

• Too Far From Home?

  by Jessie Hart October 24, 2010
  This post is actually a rewrite from a summer time piece. It reflects how life is an ever changing process.The first time I heard "Bob Seger's Hollywood Nights", I knew exactly how he felt. The lyrics: "He knew right then he was too far from home. He was too far from home." bur...

• Full Circle

  by Jessie Hart October 24, 2010
  I enjoyed a special week this week. I went out on my first date ever with a guy.  As I've written a number of times, as recently as a year ago I really didn't want much part of it. The change in thinking has been gradual. When I did attract positive male attention, I accepted it as validatio...

• by Jessie Hart October 18, 2010
  editstatsdeletesuggest links closeLoading ...Transgender Survival Guide My Life As A Girl. Part 88Here is one many personal looks  into the funny and not so funny life on the gender divide! Enjoy! It may be time to soften your look when-a little girl looks at me and says to Mom "L...

• It's a Wonderful Life?

  by Jessie Hart October 9, 2010
  Unless you live in a cave, or with me in a box under a bridge-you probably haven't missed the transgender news in several areas. Transgender youth are making headlines as homecoming queens or kings in their chosen gender. The latest story comes out of Texas where transgender student "And...

• Are You Your Mama's Daughter?

  by Jessie Hart October 7, 2010
  Yes girlfriends, I'm talking about us. Some Mom's really wanted a daughter and dressed some of us as girls. Some Mom's may have found it interesting to relate to us on some level as a girl and let us in on a little makeup or clothes. Other Mom's may have shut us out all together. All of the ...

• Paranoia

  by Jessie Hart October 7, 2010
  On occasion (believe it or not) the old noggin goes on blank mode. Do I want to write about the same old happenings? The agony of defeat when I don't present correctly-or the thrill of victory when I do? NO! How about some good old fashioned paranoia. As Crosby, Still's and Nash would say &quo...

• Oh No She Didn't!

  by Jessie Hart October 3, 2010
  Really? "Cassandra Cass" pictured here is a star in San Fransisco and recently has been added to Showtime TV's new midnight show "Wild Things". This "Wild Thing" was born "Casey" in Des Moines, Iowa 32 years ago and has reportedly spent 150 grand...

• How to Update!

  by Jessie Hart October 2, 2010
  This is the latest excerpt from my "transgender "How to" Guide.At times the whole deal will seem insurmountable, but if you really want to be mistaken for a girl-you have to get out and learn! Along the way you will have to learn about learning to use a passable voice, rest roo...

• Can You Ever Go Home?

  by Jessie Hart September 30, 2010
  If I can quote "Bob Seger's Hollywood Nights" tune-"he knew right then he was too far from home. He was too far from home." Then relate it to losing your male identity, I would. Wait! I just did! The reason I did quote the song (basically about a beautiful California blond...