20120331, A Day to Ever be Remembered

• Posted by Tara Wallace April 1, 2012 #  2,056 views
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  Girls, I am happy to announce that I've managed to cross the threshold and have my first outting en femme. It was so glorious!

   

  On the 31 of March, my bestie held a party to celebrate her birthday which occured earlier in the month. She invited me and several of her friends and held a costume party. And she was entirely okay, infact (even) defensive about people treating me well if I so chose, to dress femme in costume. So excitedly, I went online and began to browse costumes big enough to fit a girl like me.

   

  The costume choice narrowed down between a "Twilight Fairy" and a "Pirate Wench." After talking with my bestie, we decided I looked best in the Pirate Wench outfit and I wore that. Pictures of me in both outfits are in my albums, though they are without makeup.

   

  When the day came for the party, my bestie and I got everything together, then proceeded to get into our costumes. Once we were all put together, she helped me get made  up and made up herself (I looked great... or at least I felt great and I'll put a picture up in my albums of me with makeup on in the pirate outfit).

   

  I was nervous about it, but I really had nothing to fear. All of her other friends were completely okay with me being dressed as I was. They even called me by female pronouns and used my female name. It was fantastic. They seemed to totally accept me as one of the girls the whole night! Being one of the girls felt so much better than the years I've endured as "one of the guys." So we talked, drank, and enjoyed eachother's company within the safety of my Bestie's house.

   

  But later, we decided to go out. It was more along the lines to replace and supplement my Bestie's toy collection. So we went to a local sex shop *blushes* On the way there we continued to talk and enjoy eachother's company. The fact that I had XY chromosomes didn't change that they counted me among the girls and I felt totally confirmed as a girl with these wonderful ladies.

   

  Even when we got there, one of the girls looped her arm in mine and we walked like girlfriends into the shop. There was a little goofing and having to go back to the car a couple times. Everyone in the store was very nice, no one said anything and I felt super comfortable. I was walking with pride and confidence through the store and even when we left. I felt like with my new girlfriends, I could take on the world.

   

  Us girls clamoured back into the car and drove home, giggling and enjoying eachother's company. And when it was time to break up the party, we all parted with hugs and smiles.

   

  I've said it before, and I'll probably say it to my dying days: My bestie is so wonderful and awesome. I'm not sure I could ask for a better one. I got to be femme for her party. Don't worry! The party was still all about her and we shared drinks and wished her happy birthday and ate cake, but I wanted to relay my experience to you all.

   

  This is the first of many ventures. This was a tiny one, but one none the less. I can't wait to go out again with my girlfriends!

   

  So much love and happiness I have to try to keep from crying... but I guess that's what us girls do when we get emotional... and I'm happy to have the salty pools spill over to run down my cheeks.

   

  I love all my sisters here, thanks for encouragement and cheers. MWAH!