One small step...

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    Well, I came out ot work today to the HR person. It was unbeleiveably hard to start the conversation. I was on the verge of hyperventilating. It was almost like an out of body experience where I was outside myself while I was talking to her. Maybe that fact the she was a woman made it a little easier but it was still one of the hardest things I have ever done in my life. I know I shouldn't think that all women will be that accepting. That would be like saying that all mtf transexuals desire men. She was very accepting and supportive. I was so relieved and overhwhelmed that we both ended up crying before it was over. I can't beleive I screwed up the courage to do this. Every small step brings me closer to the person I know I want do be. I hope my writing this will help someone else find their voice.

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  • Marissa Mallo, News Hound Thanks to all for the kind words of encouragment!
  • Briana Lynn Rekowski I would say it was a huge step Marrisa, congrats to you : )
  • Amanda Bruce Trust me Marissa - it WILL help.
  • Ludo Henry What a beautiful blog. I rarely comment on things but your story really caught the back of my throat. Your Wife clearly has wonderful things planned for you and is watching over to make sure you are okay as you undertake your journey. Transition has made...  more