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  • 08 Nov 2008
    OMG.....is it really that long since i blogged? Well, its not been too bad a period for me. On Tuesday, i had an appointment over at the Norwich GIC ( Gender Identity Clinic) with Dr Ted Olive, who i last saw here in Lowestoft back in April of 2006. This time he was accompanied by Barbara Ross who i'd never met before & got on very well with. I certainly gained a lot out of it & knowin that there IS somewhere closer to home is a great help to me, because its hard being stuck out here. But, in just under 4wks time i'm gonna be one very happy girl because my Charllet's coming to stay for a week & just before xmas too. I haven't seen her since mid-july & have missed her so much it hurts. Getting to see her so close to christmas is truly going to be the bestest prezzie EVER!!. There's been some news that everyone in town has been talking about. It even made the local and National news too. Last thursdsay a man was arrested at the train station & it turns out A) he was very drunk & B) he was ONLY carrying two improvised explosive devices ( Bombs) with him as well as certain literature too. He went before the magistrates here who BAILED him, despite him carrying all that stuff with him. I just thank god the MET re-arrested him immediately & he's now in custody facing major Charges relating to terrorism.  I Honestly never thought i'd see that kind of thing here, & thinking what could have happened had he not been caught....well it just doesnt bear thinking about does it?.
    13043 Posted by Anna-Marie Trindall
  • 20 May 2011
    I'm feeling totally fk'd off with things right now. Since January i've had to put up with harassment & Abuse from an idiot neighbour of mine. It started with him ringing my bell at 2 in the morning & progressed to him actually ringing my front door bell in the earlt hours too. Since then, the dirty b*****d hyad left condoms outside my door, thrown eggs at my windows, Shoved some real SICK notes under my door, too sick to even repeat. So i got on to my local council & police ( several times) & to be honest they've done NOTHING to help sort my problems out.  Recently they came & fitted Strong Bolts to my door, then i actually felt SAFE in my own home. But today they dropped a bombshell on me by saying that the door they had added bolts to was a fire-door & they were gonna come and take them off. I have to say i was well & truly p*ssed off as this was the only thing stopping the tw@t from getting to my front door and to be told the bolts were coming off was a real kick in the teeth. Round here it seens like the rights of the abuser come before those of the victiim & that is not fair. The Council even offered me another place & i told them in no uncertain terms i was'nae moving  because they couldn't be bothered to move the Problem. I Have since been to a solicitor who's been a great help, & i've been advised that if this trouble carries on, that they can apply to the courts for an injunction/ Harassment order banning him from contacting or coming near me. I hope this does the trick becuase i'm not sure how much more i can take before i do summat i dont want to. One thing i DID hear was that this t*sser was wantin to move away, i just wish he would & i could suggest a place for him.....10 miles out to sea with pocketfuls of lead.     I'm feeling a tad happier now, but earlier today i could'nae stop cryin.
    2741 Posted by Anna-Marie Trindall
  • 27 Dec 2009
    My christmas hasn't been too bad at all if i'm honest. I went to the midnight church service at a church near me & it was a good one as usual...thats probably why i've been every year for the past 4 years. Whilst there  i did something i have never done before EVER, now i'm not a religious person but i went & had a Blessing done. I had no idea WHAT communion was so i just settled for the blessing & i think it made the night more special for me given the way things had been going. Was Round at mums on xmas day & she had the whole family round & we had a great time, lots to eat & the drink certainly flowed but then it always does when we're all there. Mum did us proud as usual with the xmas dinner and i provided the wine. she was going to wash up too but i beat her to it.....lol. All in all it was a pretty good day & i didnt do too badly for pressies although there was one i'd have given  absolutely ANYTHING for & that would be to have Charllet here to share xmas with. Lets hope i get that next year cos its something that simply can't be beat, sharing xmas with loved ones. I hope everyones xmas was as good as mine wasLove Anna Marie xxxxxx
    2597 Posted by Anna-Marie Trindall
  • 04 Apr 2009
    2 days ago i had to do something i never thought i'd have to do. Since 2006, i have been going to see a pyschotherapist at Charing Cross GIC , a Dr Stuart Lorimer & i have beebn doing pretty well with him. But its got to a stage now where i just cant afford £130 for what is essentially a 30 min appt. The last 4/5 times i have been, i've filled in & sent off correct forms to claim my travel costs back and every time i have had nothing back from them. Family have helped me in the past but even they have had to stop as its costing them too. its something thats been on my mind for ages as i really didn't want to stop but i now have no choice but to. Had i been in work it wouldnt have been so bad but i'm not & every trip down is costing me 2 weeks JSA money. A Girl's gotta eat after all, so i have written to Dr Lorimer & explained the situation, i just hope he understands how tough it is for me right now
    2553 Posted by Anna-Marie Trindall
Society Girl's Personal Blogs 970 views Nov 15, 2005
The greatest love of all.......

Well i've stopped crying for the moment so here goes....

What a truly romantic weekend i have just had, startin on thursday when waiting for charllets train to arrive.I was rather nervous, stood waiting on the platform but need'nt have been. There were a few tears in my eyes when i first saw her,as i gave her a hug. We got Back to mine soon after 6 and spent the entire evening chattin away til gone midnight & aided by a  chilled bottle of wine. Friday after brekkie,we decided to take a walk out so i could show charllet lowestofts good bits. Had a wander down the main street, stopping for a coffee as well which was nice. What i didn't realise was that it was charllet's first time "out"anywhere!!. for a first time she did brilliantly. Home around mid-afternoon,more chatting before i got dinner on the go,doing my speciality sausage casserole...mmmmmmm. Spent rest of the evening watching telly and chatting, before bed around 1 am.  Got out again saturday morning again....shopping this time.There were loads more peeps about which was great fun.Even had lunch out too which was brill!!.Home around 3 -ish, cos we were off out for a meal later that evening. Got ourselves all done up cos the cab arrived around 6-45, dropped off outside restaurant soon after....the cab driver even said "have a good evening" too which was nice of him. The place was quiet when we arrived but soon filled up. It was such an honour to dine out with a wonderful girl like charllet. there were 2 young girls..couldn't have been any more than 7 or 8 and they looked at the 2 of us so i smiled back.Got Cab home and spent rest of the evening in front of the telly, both feelin totally stuffed!!

Sunday for me was the best day cos we both attended the Rememberance service in Lowestoft. We  did get a few looks but i didn't care cos i was with the girl i loved so very much.After the service,we even had coffee in a rather posh hotel......even got called ladies too!!. More shopping after that which was great fun cos charllet got what she wanted and me......i got another pair of heels in evans, in their sale for £7.00....YES £7.00!!. How good was that eh. Home soon after, when i got dinner ready....chicken,new pots, veggies and yorkie's too. even had help with the dryin up too. Then spent rest of evening natterin away just like us girls do,don't we? After brekkie on monday we got out again, mainly to take a few piccies as evidence & so we had something to remember things by. I even introduced charllet to my goood friend glenys, who works in our library.Guess what.....she thinks Charllet is really nice!! Home mid afternoon, cos we both had things to do, and we needed an early night too.This morning was the hardest morning i have ever had cos we were up early as charllet 's train was leaving at 07.58. both of us hardly slept at all and couldn't manage brekkie either. We stood on that platform sharin a last big hug & kiss before it was time for her to leave. By this time i was in floods of tears cos i just did'nt want it to end. The Hardest part was for me, watchin til the train went out of sight and i was left all alone, sobbing my heart out. it did take me a while to calm down, which i eventually did. I went to Mcdonalds for A coffee, only to start sobbin again cos the new "westlife" song was playin on the radio.After that i got myself off home to try and re-compose myself which i've only just been able to do. As i'm sat here typin now i can still feel her presence, and her arms hugging & caressing me all over. I finally feel that i have met someone who feels the same way about me as i do about her and i've never been happier.

Charlllet sweetie, if you're reading this....thankyou SO much for a truly romantic weekend, it was all i'd ever hoped for .and SO much more besides. From the bottom of my heart darling I LOVE YOU SOOOOOOO MUCH & ALWAYS WILL..LOL BIG H&K XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX