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  • 15 Oct 2016
    The waiting-times for Gender Identity Clinic referrals in England and Wales continue to soar: first appointments in Exeter and Nottingham are well over a year (up from 3 months just 2 years ago): Leeds, Sheffield and London more like 3 years: the legal team in the West Midlands have advised the Clinic not to release figures; and, if you are not fortunate enough to be a Northumberland Area resident, 12 and a 1/2 years in Newcastle (so much for 'Patient Choice').   It is no surprise that Trans people and their parents or guardians are tempted to 'self-medicate' and to obtain supplies claimed to be 'sex-hormones, on the Internet.   Those who appreciate the dangers of this 'interim' therapy may well go for telephone consultations with a qualified Medical Practitioner; and think this course is the safer choice.   Trans people are vulnerable, frequently confused and exposed, leading to inevitable potential financial exploitation. A classic example of this was the business career of the charming and late Mrs Booth ( Ms Lloyd), who set up exorbitantly expensive shops (first in Prestwich, Manchester) targeting the Trans community; and, later, the now collapsed Llangollen Hotels targetting the LGBT community. I visited her Prestwich shop in 1988, and fell in love with a dress at £50.00: not only could I never afford it, but I found exactly the same dress with an identical label in a Bolton shop the next week.....price? £10.00 !!!   My personal opinion is that a doctor prescribing hormones to 12 years olds, and the parent or guardian, are exposed and open to legal action by the individual, once they reach the age of informed consent. It is likely that any doctor willing to treat Trans individuals without prior communication with their General Practitioner and sight of their medical history and medication is placing themselves at risk of General Medical Council scrutiny at the least. This is compounded by (personal reports from Trans-women frends) one well-known doctor in the UK is failing in their duty to obtain base-line blood tests (to include sex-hormones anf Liver Function Tests), prior to initiating therapy. The same doctor appears not to undertake the necessary repeat tests after eight weeks of treatment and repeat tests six monthly to dose-titrate the therapy.   Complaints have apparently been received by the GMC: who have just issued interim guide-lines to medical practitioners for 'Telephone Consultations'; and,commenced a consultation document in order to provide final guide-lines in the essential interests of 'Patient Safety'.   In the meantime, my sisters: "Beware of Strangers bearing Gifts" !   
  • The waiting-times for Gender Identity Clinic referrals in England and Wales continue to soar: first appointments in Exeter and Nottingham are well over a year (up from 3 months just 2 years ago): Leeds, Sheffield and London more like 3 years: the legal team in the West Midlands have advised the Clinic not to release figures; and, if you are not fortunate enough to be a Northumberland Area resident, 12 and a 1/2 years in Newcastle (so much for 'Patient Choice').   It is no surprise that Trans people and their parents or guardians are tempted to 'self-medicate' and to obtain supplies claimed to be 'sex-hormones, on the Internet.   Those who appreciate the dangers of this 'interim' therapy may well go for telephone consultations with a qualified Medical Practitioner; and think this course is the safer choice.   Trans people are vulnerable, frequently confused and exposed, leading to inevitable potential financial exploitation. A classic example of this was the business career of the charming and late Mrs Booth ( Ms Lloyd), who set up exorbitantly expensive shops (first in Prestwich, Manchester) targeting the Trans community; and, later, the now collapsed Llangollen Hotels targetting the LGBT community. I visited her Prestwich shop in 1988, and fell in love with a dress at £50.00: not only could I never afford it, but I found exactly the same dress with an identical label in a Bolton shop the next week.....price? £10.00 !!!   My personal opinion is that a doctor prescribing hormones to 12 years olds, and the parent or guardian, are exposed and open to legal action by the individual, once they reach the age of informed consent. It is likely that any doctor willing to treat Trans individuals without prior communication with their General Practitioner and sight of their medical history and medication is placing themselves at risk of General Medical Council scrutiny at the least. This is compounded by (personal reports from Trans-women frends) one well-known doctor in the UK is failing in their duty to obtain base-line blood tests (to include sex-hormones anf Liver Function Tests), prior to initiating therapy. The same doctor appears not to undertake the necessary repeat tests after eight weeks of treatment and repeat tests six monthly to dose-titrate the therapy.   Complaints have apparently been received by the GMC: who have just issued interim guide-lines to medical practitioners for 'Telephone Consultations'; and,commenced a consultation document in order to provide final guide-lines in the essential interests of 'Patient Safety'.   In the meantime, my sisters: "Beware of Strangers bearing Gifts" !   
    Oct 15, 2016 497
  • 11 Oct 2016
    jotting a few thoughts ,comments on recent happenings -Personally Transition wise ..waiting for the surgeons assesment GRS wise.Health wise I am okay . -Occupation work wise ..I transitioned from being a corporate electronic engineer to now a happy  mixture of Gardener,House keeper,Dog sitter ,and Artist sculptor in Metalwork.Just finished of a large water feature commission, the client was very happy, and so am I with it.They had lovely Dogs who made a great fuss of me when I visited. -The media stuff Brexit, Trump et al, and welcome reminder in the shape of Jan Morris age 90 talking to Michael Palin on UK Telly .So is  Democracy just  about having your right to be heard and represented by  elections and referenda  pronouncing the Winners and Losers defining those as  superior and Right and those cast as wrong? I find it is difficult to dismiss the feeling that the recent increases  reports of crimes of  Xenophobic ,Homophobic and prejudice are linked to the political success of a mixed voice of dissention considering itself to be legitimized.The flip side is responsibilty for your actions,and understanding how you affect others. I was pleased to see the short programme about Jan Morris , who I remember seeing for the first time  in the early 70s [when I was about 10]confronting a very sceptical television Panel  sitting in Judgement almost on Trial,including the late Robin Day about her "Sex Change".This was a revelation to me at the time, and I was just so struck , Jan is the kind of person I relate to and I felt a linkage , not to any of the others on the programme representing the norm and the majority .They Actually showed the same  archival footage as part the Michael Palin programme.well Worth seeing.     So toward the end of the programme Michael Palin  very informally inquired , "..so your 90 whats the secret , what do you want to say."  Jan showed the gravestone which declared her life long Partner as friends, and articulated the idea that kindness was a better guide than love.
    441 Posted by Donna V
  • By Donna V
    jotting a few thoughts ,comments on recent happenings -Personally Transition wise ..waiting for the surgeons assesment GRS wise.Health wise I am okay . -Occupation work wise ..I transitioned from being a corporate electronic engineer to now a happy  mixture of Gardener,House keeper,Dog sitter ,and Artist sculptor in Metalwork.Just finished of a large water feature commission, the client was very happy, and so am I with it.They had lovely Dogs who made a great fuss of me when I visited. -The media stuff Brexit, Trump et al, and welcome reminder in the shape of Jan Morris age 90 talking to Michael Palin on UK Telly .So is  Democracy just  about having your right to be heard and represented by  elections and referenda  pronouncing the Winners and Losers defining those as  superior and Right and those cast as wrong? I find it is difficult to dismiss the feeling that the recent increases  reports of crimes of  Xenophobic ,Homophobic and prejudice are linked to the political success of a mixed voice of dissention considering itself to be legitimized.The flip side is responsibilty for your actions,and understanding how you affect others. I was pleased to see the short programme about Jan Morris , who I remember seeing for the first time  in the early 70s [when I was about 10]confronting a very sceptical television Panel  sitting in Judgement almost on Trial,including the late Robin Day about her "Sex Change".This was a revelation to me at the time, and I was just so struck , Jan is the kind of person I relate to and I felt a linkage , not to any of the others on the programme representing the norm and the majority .They Actually showed the same  archival footage as part the Michael Palin programme.well Worth seeing.     So toward the end of the programme Michael Palin  very informally inquired , "..so your 90 whats the secret , what do you want to say."  Jan showed the gravestone which declared her life long Partner as friends, and articulated the idea that kindness was a better guide than love.
    Oct 11, 2016 441
  • 05 Oct 2016
    Where I ever concocted the naive and simplistic idea that those Trans people who end up attracted to the opposite and their birth sex must be Bisexual, I have no idea. I married again, after the death of my first wife; and, the relationship was as good as it gets until my obligation to Transition clicked in.   One of the other two girls on our South Coast break, a fortnight ago, became sufficiently unwell to be considered for hospital admission from Casualty. We arrived with her 'things' and plans regarding disposal of her car her car.   In Casualty, we were allowed in behind the curtains to sit and to talk with her. Swiftly shood out by the nurse, prior to the return of the doctor with her blood results; we stood in the corridor as a god-like adonis passed by. Open-mouthed we both simply swooned. The nurses called us back in: she was to be discharged, with a prescription, as the blood tests were satisfactory, she informed us.   Her next remark concerned her 'falling in love with the doctor': you should have seen him, she stated! We informed her that we both had done so, and we were also in love. Her reply: "I saw him first, so he's mine!'   After nearly two years on hormones, I have started to notice attractive men: I would have put money on that "Never, ever happening" to me.
  • Where I ever concocted the naive and simplistic idea that those Trans people who end up attracted to the opposite and their birth sex must be Bisexual, I have no idea. I married again, after the death of my first wife; and, the relationship was as good as it gets until my obligation to Transition clicked in.   One of the other two girls on our South Coast break, a fortnight ago, became sufficiently unwell to be considered for hospital admission from Casualty. We arrived with her 'things' and plans regarding disposal of her car her car.   In Casualty, we were allowed in behind the curtains to sit and to talk with her. Swiftly shood out by the nurse, prior to the return of the doctor with her blood results; we stood in the corridor as a god-like adonis passed by. Open-mouthed we both simply swooned. The nurses called us back in: she was to be discharged, with a prescription, as the blood tests were satisfactory, she informed us.   Her next remark concerned her 'falling in love with the doctor': you should have seen him, she stated! We informed her that we both had done so, and we were also in love. Her reply: "I saw him first, so he's mine!'   After nearly two years on hormones, I have started to notice attractive men: I would have put money on that "Never, ever happening" to me.
    Oct 05, 2016 1272
  • 23 Sep 2016
    Sex
    Did the headline catch your attention? Good, it was supposed to. This entry is going to be about the evolution of my sexuality since beginning my transion. This one won't be as raunchy as the last time I wrote about my blooming sexuality, but I can't promise it will be completely PG. I'll try to keep it at least PG13. In my old life I identified as a straight male. I never once even considered the idea of being with a guy because I never found any attractive. I often fantasized about being the receiver but I never imagined it would be with a male. When I entertained the day dream of being ****** I always imagined a woman with a strap on. I didn't think I was gay for this, I just thought it was a kink. I have several kinks, some stranger than others, but I will not talk about them here. If you are truely interested in that, search Devi_Disaster on Fetlife. Things went on this way for years, typical boy - girl hetero sex with some occasional bdsm to keep things interesting. A couple years before coming out as a transgirl I began questioning my gender and sexuality. During this time I didn't date much and wasn't really looking for a relationship. I've never really been a fan of one-night-stands and I was so sick of failed relationships with crazy women that it was easier on my sanity to just be single until someone very very special came along. One of the very few encounters I had durring this time was with a friend of mine who was a beautiful trans Chica. Though she is of Mexican decent I call her Chica as more of a pet name than a slur. Since meeting her she facinated me, what I admired most about her was her courage to live her life her own way. She didn't desire to be on hormones or have any surgeries, she didn't care if she passed, she was a true case of a fully female brain in a male body. In her own words, she was already pretty and already confident in her femininity, she didn't need anything artificial to confirm these things. As a side note, I expect she was a case of XXY chromosomes, for never being on hormones she was very feminine, nice figure, pretty face, smaller than average penis. I think she was simply born with a body that produced an excess of estrogen. Anyway, meeting her kind of opened my eyes to a confidence and courage I lacked. This realization made me even more confused. It was always my deep dark secret that I wished to be a girl, but I thought it could never be. I didn't realize I AM a girl until after a bout of deep depression and denial of my inner femme. Durring this period of denial and depression I got back in touch with one of my exs. My first girlfriend, first love, first kiss, first date, first sexual experience, first everything when I was 14. We kinda stayed in touch over the years through the Internet but when I was in my denial we started sleeping together again. She bloomed into a very gorgeous woman since we split as kids, a true bomb shell now. I thought sleeping with her would help solidify my manhood but it didn't, it only made me realize I couldn't keep my deep dark secret in anymore. Boy - girl sex just wasn't fun anymore if I had to be the boy. Shortly after my fling with her I came out as trans and started my transition. This gave me a reset for all of my likes, dislikes, turn ons, turn offs and everything else. I used my transition as an opportunity to reprogram everything about myself I didn't like, but it didn't happen overnight. After coming out I went without sex for over a year, by my own choice. I didn't want to get into a relationship or date or even have a casual encounter until I was sure of what I liked. Over the course of that year something strange happened, I started to be attracted to boys! I met a ton of people, some of them transgirls, some of them gender fluid or gender queer, some drag queens and some androgenous girly boys. I realized that what's in the pants didn't really concern me. I think part of the reason for this was that I was trying my hardest to assert that I am a woman!, despite my current genitals. So if I want the world to see me as no different than any other girl just because I still have a penis, then I should see other girls like me as being no different than any other girl. I started to find personalities more attractive than faces and bodies. My attractions were starting to be more genuine than simple lust. I began to realize that I had many options for potential partners but I still wasn't quite sure what to label my orientation yet. I went through phases of feeling strictly lesbian, feeling pansexual, feeling bisexual with no preference and feeling bisexual with a preference. For a few very dark weeks I even felt like a straight guy again. (Last Christmas was very depressing for me and I had a full relapse into who I used to be, I might write about that another time but let's just say with the state of mind I was in I definately was not myself). Anyway, fast forward again to last February. I was out clubbing one night at my favorite local goth night when I met a person named Pandora. I didn't think much of her at the time because we didn't talk much the night we met. I couldn't tell what her gender was but I knew she was pretty. I kinda wrote her off as just another club goer that I might or might not run into again, until the next day when she found me online. She told me how much she wanted to get to know me but was too shy for her own good. We started chating and it turns out she was another transgender girl like myself who was barley out of the closet. Like me she went through her phase of being a closet cross dresser and never really left the house en femme until that night I met her. We texted, chatted, called and skyped each other every day until we decided to go on a formal date. Before that date I already knew she was special. Funny enough our first date was at a singles event the night club hosts in the middle of February called The Broken Hearts Ball. If you show up single or stage an amusing break up at the door you get in free. Anyway, we had a great time! We drank and we danced, we talked, we went for a stroll around downtown, I even took her to a secluded stair way in a parking garage where I got on my knees and lifted her skirt and well I think you can tell where this is going. Sucking dick in an alley or a parking garage or something was another one of my kinky fantasies. Am I ashamed? Not at all. Am I a dirty freak, absolutely. Pandora and I have been together for 7 or 8 months now, she moved in with me about 4 or 5 months ago and I've never been happier. She has the purest heart and the kindest soul of anyone I've ever met. She makes me feel so girly, so femme, so right, and so happy. I laugh with her more than I've ever laughed with anyone else and I've learned so much about myself I didn't know. Early on in our relationship I gave her my virginity and I loved it! Well, by virginity I mean I bottomed for her for the first time. My first virginity was the boy - girl kind when I was the boy, my second virginity was being the girl and receiving it. My third and final virginity I can't give up until I have my vagina installed. These days I don't have much interest in topping. It doesn't make me feel like a woman and I don't get off that way anymore. An anal orgasm feels soooo much better and much more like a female orgasm than ejaculating. So what is my orientation now? I consider myself a bisexual woman. I'm attracted to femininity and feminine people. I prefer cis women and trans woman but occasionally find myself swooning over pretty androgenous boys. I still top once in a while but would much rather bottom. I no longer enjoy ejaculating and would much rather be ejaculated in. I'm happier now with my relationship and sex life than I've ever been with anyone else and if I would have known how good sex could be I would have been doing it differently all along. If this post was TMI, well, I'm surprised you've read it this far. I write these things for me because it's therapeutic for me and I hope it somehow helps someone come to terms with any similar issues they might be having. I hope some of you have enjoyed reading this. .... Ps. I named the bear Suzy.
    594 Posted by Devi Strigoica
  • Sex
    Did the headline catch your attention? Good, it was supposed to. This entry is going to be about the evolution of my sexuality since beginning my transion. This one won't be as raunchy as the last time I wrote about my blooming sexuality, but I can't promise it will be completely PG. I'll try to keep it at least PG13. In my old life I identified as a straight male. I never once even considered the idea of being with a guy because I never found any attractive. I often fantasized about being the receiver but I never imagined it would be with a male. When I entertained the day dream of being ****** I always imagined a woman with a strap on. I didn't think I was gay for this, I just thought it was a kink. I have several kinks, some stranger than others, but I will not talk about them here. If you are truely interested in that, search Devi_Disaster on Fetlife. Things went on this way for years, typical boy - girl hetero sex with some occasional bdsm to keep things interesting. A couple years before coming out as a transgirl I began questioning my gender and sexuality. During this time I didn't date much and wasn't really looking for a relationship. I've never really been a fan of one-night-stands and I was so sick of failed relationships with crazy women that it was easier on my sanity to just be single until someone very very special came along. One of the very few encounters I had durring this time was with a friend of mine who was a beautiful trans Chica. Though she is of Mexican decent I call her Chica as more of a pet name than a slur. Since meeting her she facinated me, what I admired most about her was her courage to live her life her own way. She didn't desire to be on hormones or have any surgeries, she didn't care if she passed, she was a true case of a fully female brain in a male body. In her own words, she was already pretty and already confident in her femininity, she didn't need anything artificial to confirm these things. As a side note, I expect she was a case of XXY chromosomes, for never being on hormones she was very feminine, nice figure, pretty face, smaller than average penis. I think she was simply born with a body that produced an excess of estrogen. Anyway, meeting her kind of opened my eyes to a confidence and courage I lacked. This realization made me even more confused. It was always my deep dark secret that I wished to be a girl, but I thought it could never be. I didn't realize I AM a girl until after a bout of deep depression and denial of my inner femme. Durring this period of denial and depression I got back in touch with one of my exs. My first girlfriend, first love, first kiss, first date, first sexual experience, first everything when I was 14. We kinda stayed in touch over the years through the Internet but when I was in my denial we started sleeping together again. She bloomed into a very gorgeous woman since we split as kids, a true bomb shell now. I thought sleeping with her would help solidify my manhood but it didn't, it only made me realize I couldn't keep my deep dark secret in anymore. Boy - girl sex just wasn't fun anymore if I had to be the boy. Shortly after my fling with her I came out as trans and started my transition. This gave me a reset for all of my likes, dislikes, turn ons, turn offs and everything else. I used my transition as an opportunity to reprogram everything about myself I didn't like, but it didn't happen overnight. After coming out I went without sex for over a year, by my own choice. I didn't want to get into a relationship or date or even have a casual encounter until I was sure of what I liked. Over the course of that year something strange happened, I started to be attracted to boys! I met a ton of people, some of them transgirls, some of them gender fluid or gender queer, some drag queens and some androgenous girly boys. I realized that what's in the pants didn't really concern me. I think part of the reason for this was that I was trying my hardest to assert that I am a woman!, despite my current genitals. So if I want the world to see me as no different than any other girl just because I still have a penis, then I should see other girls like me as being no different than any other girl. I started to find personalities more attractive than faces and bodies. My attractions were starting to be more genuine than simple lust. I began to realize that I had many options for potential partners but I still wasn't quite sure what to label my orientation yet. I went through phases of feeling strictly lesbian, feeling pansexual, feeling bisexual with no preference and feeling bisexual with a preference. For a few very dark weeks I even felt like a straight guy again. (Last Christmas was very depressing for me and I had a full relapse into who I used to be, I might write about that another time but let's just say with the state of mind I was in I definately was not myself). Anyway, fast forward again to last February. I was out clubbing one night at my favorite local goth night when I met a person named Pandora. I didn't think much of her at the time because we didn't talk much the night we met. I couldn't tell what her gender was but I knew she was pretty. I kinda wrote her off as just another club goer that I might or might not run into again, until the next day when she found me online. She told me how much she wanted to get to know me but was too shy for her own good. We started chating and it turns out she was another transgender girl like myself who was barley out of the closet. Like me she went through her phase of being a closet cross dresser and never really left the house en femme until that night I met her. We texted, chatted, called and skyped each other every day until we decided to go on a formal date. Before that date I already knew she was special. Funny enough our first date was at a singles event the night club hosts in the middle of February called The Broken Hearts Ball. If you show up single or stage an amusing break up at the door you get in free. Anyway, we had a great time! We drank and we danced, we talked, we went for a stroll around downtown, I even took her to a secluded stair way in a parking garage where I got on my knees and lifted her skirt and well I think you can tell where this is going. Sucking dick in an alley or a parking garage or something was another one of my kinky fantasies. Am I ashamed? Not at all. Am I a dirty freak, absolutely. Pandora and I have been together for 7 or 8 months now, she moved in with me about 4 or 5 months ago and I've never been happier. She has the purest heart and the kindest soul of anyone I've ever met. She makes me feel so girly, so femme, so right, and so happy. I laugh with her more than I've ever laughed with anyone else and I've learned so much about myself I didn't know. Early on in our relationship I gave her my virginity and I loved it! Well, by virginity I mean I bottomed for her for the first time. My first virginity was the boy - girl kind when I was the boy, my second virginity was being the girl and receiving it. My third and final virginity I can't give up until I have my vagina installed. These days I don't have much interest in topping. It doesn't make me feel like a woman and I don't get off that way anymore. An anal orgasm feels soooo much better and much more like a female orgasm than ejaculating. So what is my orientation now? I consider myself a bisexual woman. I'm attracted to femininity and feminine people. I prefer cis women and trans woman but occasionally find myself swooning over pretty androgenous boys. I still top once in a while but would much rather bottom. I no longer enjoy ejaculating and would much rather be ejaculated in. I'm happier now with my relationship and sex life than I've ever been with anyone else and if I would have known how good sex could be I would have been doing it differently all along. If this post was TMI, well, I'm surprised you've read it this far. I write these things for me because it's therapeutic for me and I hope it somehow helps someone come to terms with any similar issues they might be having. I hope some of you have enjoyed reading this. .... Ps. I named the bear Suzy.
    Sep 23, 2016 594
  • 17 Sep 2016
    How is everybody doing? I just felt the need to rant a bit (again lol). I think I mentioned how my dad and I got dumbells so I could start lifting and I was wondering since he bought them if maybe he was accepting me (not really what this is about). I've been looking at workouts online and of course wishing I could look like these huge guys (knowing I could never get THAT big). Problem is, I read that it's a myth that if a girl lifts weights they'll get bulky. So, that means no matter how much I lift, I can't get bulky at all because I'm a girl on the outside? Just more disappointment if it's true, but then again, I guess it just means I have to do more than just lift. (Like T-shots or something). 
    451 Posted by Kris McKinley
  • How is everybody doing? I just felt the need to rant a bit (again lol). I think I mentioned how my dad and I got dumbells so I could start lifting and I was wondering since he bought them if maybe he was accepting me (not really what this is about). I've been looking at workouts online and of course wishing I could look like these huge guys (knowing I could never get THAT big). Problem is, I read that it's a myth that if a girl lifts weights they'll get bulky. So, that means no matter how much I lift, I can't get bulky at all because I'm a girl on the outside? Just more disappointment if it's true, but then again, I guess it just means I have to do more than just lift. (Like T-shots or something). 
    Sep 17, 2016 451
  • 15 Sep 2016
    Questions, therefore not to be quoted as a scientific study, submitted to a random selection of Transgender female adults. If you had serious wealth and momey was simply no object, would you go for which of the following surgical proceedures.......? Surprisingly, the survey did not include:-  - Elevation (subtle) of the eyebrows and reconstruction of the orbito-frontal area  - Capillary Micro-transplant Surgery  - Feminising rhinoplasty (may be nose remodelling)  - chinplasty  - Tracheal shave     Survey results: Fat reduction                54% Wrinkle eradication       26% Breast Enhancement *  19% Nose remodelling      *  18% Lip enhancement           7% Buttock enhancement    5% Vaginal modelling          4% Simply no idea              2%   * may consider
  • Questions, therefore not to be quoted as a scientific study, submitted to a random selection of Transgender female adults. If you had serious wealth and momey was simply no object, would you go for which of the following surgical proceedures.......? Surprisingly, the survey did not include:-  - Elevation (subtle) of the eyebrows and reconstruction of the orbito-frontal area  - Capillary Micro-transplant Surgery  - Feminising rhinoplasty (may be nose remodelling)  - chinplasty  - Tracheal shave     Survey results: Fat reduction                54% Wrinkle eradication       26% Breast Enhancement *  19% Nose remodelling      *  18% Lip enhancement           7% Buttock enhancement    5% Vaginal modelling          4% Simply no idea              2%   * may consider
    Sep 15, 2016 2339
  • 04 Sep 2016
    Hi gang, It's been way over a year since my surgery (Feb 10, 2015 - I'll never forget this date!) and only just gotten around to experimenting with stimulating myself. Of course my depression has a lot to do with that, bc depression, and the Rx's for it, contribute to low Lobito. Anyway, maybe it is all the attractive women I see at work, but I became aroused last week, and began, umm, experimenting! Now much of what I am going to say comes from a discussion with my surgeon afterwards, because I did not know how an orgasm for a post-op GRS patient manifests itself. My first feeling was the feeling one gets with an erection, not surprising since my clitoris is made from the head of my penis; this is also the feeling a cis woman gets. But the climax is really just mental, bc there is no "ejaculation" anymore, nor is there any fluid discharged from the neo-vagina. The neo-vagina is a "dead-end" cavity that does not secrete any fluid or lubrication the way a natal vagina does. The fluid that drained out next to my finger was just warmed-up, less viscous gel lube I had used. You do have a euphoric feeling afterward, which I have not been able to repeat the second, and only, subsequent time I tried. It was disappointing not being able to repeat the "orgasm"and I haven't had the urge again yet to try again. Well, maybe that woman will come into the store again....my reason for experimenting. I think she likes me. Yikes!
    2930 Posted by robin w
  • By robin w
    Hi gang, It's been way over a year since my surgery (Feb 10, 2015 - I'll never forget this date!) and only just gotten around to experimenting with stimulating myself. Of course my depression has a lot to do with that, bc depression, and the Rx's for it, contribute to low Lobito. Anyway, maybe it is all the attractive women I see at work, but I became aroused last week, and began, umm, experimenting! Now much of what I am going to say comes from a discussion with my surgeon afterwards, because I did not know how an orgasm for a post-op GRS patient manifests itself. My first feeling was the feeling one gets with an erection, not surprising since my clitoris is made from the head of my penis; this is also the feeling a cis woman gets. But the climax is really just mental, bc there is no "ejaculation" anymore, nor is there any fluid discharged from the neo-vagina. The neo-vagina is a "dead-end" cavity that does not secrete any fluid or lubrication the way a natal vagina does. The fluid that drained out next to my finger was just warmed-up, less viscous gel lube I had used. You do have a euphoric feeling afterward, which I have not been able to repeat the second, and only, subsequent time I tried. It was disappointing not being able to repeat the "orgasm"and I haven't had the urge again yet to try again. Well, maybe that woman will come into the store again....my reason for experimenting. I think she likes me. Yikes!
    Sep 04, 2016 2930
  • 03 Sep 2016
    Nikki arrived first at 'Via' in Manchester's Gay Village. She was sat on a high stool, showing off her graceful legs, in a corner of the bar, exquisitely dressed as usual in 'Chanel' with a full glass of Chardonnay. When she returned with my glass, she told me that she had just got rid of a persistent well-dressed French businesman-type, who insisted on buying her another drink and enjoying the evening with her. I replied "You lucky girl, nothing like that has ever happened to me!". She retorted (bitch) " Are you in any way surprised, dear".   Within five minutes, whilst deciding where to eat, we were joined by two smarlty dressed, suited and tied English Businessmen, apparently on the same tack (was there an annual 'Screwing" convention they were all attending?).  We politely refused their kind and insistent requests to buy us a drink and join us for the evening. One then politely asked me if we were 'on the game'!   I thought for a second, and then replied "Not as yet, we still obtain adequate renumeration from our present employment". Down but not out, he asked "What do you girls do for a living?" I gently but firmly replied   "She is the District Recorder for Manchester, and I am the next rung up. I sit in the High Court in London, as a Judge".   Game, Set and Match: off to 'Velvet' for the usual lovely meal served by the sweet boys, feeling great!
  • Nikki arrived first at 'Via' in Manchester's Gay Village. She was sat on a high stool, showing off her graceful legs, in a corner of the bar, exquisitely dressed as usual in 'Chanel' with a full glass of Chardonnay. When she returned with my glass, she told me that she had just got rid of a persistent well-dressed French businesman-type, who insisted on buying her another drink and enjoying the evening with her. I replied "You lucky girl, nothing like that has ever happened to me!". She retorted (bitch) " Are you in any way surprised, dear".   Within five minutes, whilst deciding where to eat, we were joined by two smarlty dressed, suited and tied English Businessmen, apparently on the same tack (was there an annual 'Screwing" convention they were all attending?).  We politely refused their kind and insistent requests to buy us a drink and join us for the evening. One then politely asked me if we were 'on the game'!   I thought for a second, and then replied "Not as yet, we still obtain adequate renumeration from our present employment". Down but not out, he asked "What do you girls do for a living?" I gently but firmly replied   "She is the District Recorder for Manchester, and I am the next rung up. I sit in the High Court in London, as a Judge".   Game, Set and Match: off to 'Velvet' for the usual lovely meal served by the sweet boys, feeling great!
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  • 31 Aug 2016
    How's everybody doing today(night)? I just felt like blogging and thought I'd share that I finally got myself to practice driving and get comfortable behind the wheel of a car. I actually steered better than I thought I would so I'm hoping it just gets easier from here. If you read my recent blogs, you'll know how nervous I was about driving so I'm just glad that I actually got behind the wheel at all lol. So that's the good news. The bad news is even though I thought my mom was on board with me being trans... Well, I'm still getting arguments that are making me feel guilty. I recently brought up to her how I feel so backstabbed and how easy it would've been for God to have made me the right gender if he could do no wrong and her reply was along the lines of since I said that I think I know better than God... Talks like these make it all the more difficult to stay a Christian in all honesty (just saying). If anything, all I meant was I'd really like some answers. Something I've wondered from a Christian point of view: Was I born a female (even though I should've been male) just to test my faith? Sorry to bring this up again, but I just had to let that out along with the good news because it just seems a one step forward and two steps back sort of thing sometimes.
    498 Posted by Kris McKinley
  • How's everybody doing today(night)? I just felt like blogging and thought I'd share that I finally got myself to practice driving and get comfortable behind the wheel of a car. I actually steered better than I thought I would so I'm hoping it just gets easier from here. If you read my recent blogs, you'll know how nervous I was about driving so I'm just glad that I actually got behind the wheel at all lol. So that's the good news. The bad news is even though I thought my mom was on board with me being trans... Well, I'm still getting arguments that are making me feel guilty. I recently brought up to her how I feel so backstabbed and how easy it would've been for God to have made me the right gender if he could do no wrong and her reply was along the lines of since I said that I think I know better than God... Talks like these make it all the more difficult to stay a Christian in all honesty (just saying). If anything, all I meant was I'd really like some answers. Something I've wondered from a Christian point of view: Was I born a female (even though I should've been male) just to test my faith? Sorry to bring this up again, but I just had to let that out along with the good news because it just seems a one step forward and two steps back sort of thing sometimes.
    Aug 31, 2016 498
  • 21 Aug 2016
    A pastor who believes that natural disasters are sent by God to punish Gay and Trans people, has been driven out of his home in Louisiana by Historic Floods. Do we welcome 53 year-old Tony Perkins into to the LGBTI community, or let him continue to be punished and sink or swim?
  • A pastor who believes that natural disasters are sent by God to punish Gay and Trans people, has been driven out of his home in Louisiana by Historic Floods. Do we welcome 53 year-old Tony Perkins into to the LGBTI community, or let him continue to be punished and sink or swim?
    Aug 21, 2016 427