If you are a Full Member and simply want to cancel your paid subscription, there's no need to leave us altogether, so please see this FAQ instead.                                                                   

Of course, we don’t want you to leave but if you must, you can delete your account by clicking the “Settings” button in the menu at the top of the page, and then choosing the “Delete Account” button. 

You will be asked if you are sure you want to delete, because once they’re gone, membership accounts cannot be reinstated. 

If you are happy to leave then click on “Yes, Delete My Account” and it will be done.  Most content you've uploaded in the past will be permanently deleted, you will be immediately signed out and will no longer be able to sign into this account.

In order to not make our forums and certain other features unreadable because of holes where your posts were previously, forum posts and suchlike are kept but the name of the poster is changed to "Deleted Member".

If you have a moment, it would also be very helpful if you could drop us a line at memberservices@thegendersociety.com, to let us know what prompted your decision to leave.  Any feedback you can give us will greatly help us to improve the community in future.