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    • May 2, 2017 9:44 PM BST
    • I make quite a few caustic remarks about men, jokes and inferences, mostly from experiences, but the men who have lasted on this site, are the real thing, lovely, sense of humour, but most important they have an understanding and sincere empathy for us as people.   One particular one, a bit of an enigma, but if I was'nt already in love with someone, I could so easily become attached to him.

    • December 4, 2016 1:20 PM GMT
    • sometimes, the different labels people use are less about objective differences and more about the nature of their outlook and epistemology. A pragmatist verses an idealist  may self label in different ways while essentially being very similar 

      Let people self identify as they wish, but don't assume that they are obliged to use words the same as you. You have to talk to them to understand them

    • November 19, 2015 9:42 PM GMT
    • Hi Maggie,

      it was a response to the previous post which unfortunatly would seem to have many issues which I felt needed the response it had. I could choose to just hide the post but then would have to give concise reasons for this.

    • November 19, 2015 4:01 AM GMT
    • Hey Matt

      Since I have often thought that admirers are not really gay (I am the one that would like to be entered if I was in that kind of relationship) I am interested in what you mean and who's statement you are questioning?


    • September 10, 2015 10:23 PM BST
    • Ok.....

      There are a few issues with your statement;


      1. This thread has been dormant for over 3 years so this is considered Threadomancy

      2. Your statement does not add anything to the thread

      3. This section of the forums are aimed at TG Admirers

      4. I have my suspicians about trolling & spam...

    • September 4, 2015 10:22 AM BST
    • It is evident that society is becoming more and more aware of the exciting Crossdressing/transgender scene. Indeed even in the media, even some celebrities have "confessed" to enjoying the odd womans clothing.

      So girls, get dressed and enjoy it!crossdress

    • June 6, 2016 11:04 PM BST
    • If I may be so shallow...


      Big beefcakes with a nice combination of muscle and fat. I'm a sucker for large beefy men with furry chests, facial hair, twinkling eyes and maschivious boy-like grin on their manly faces. Gimme a fella with a favorite sports team, a favorite beer, a hobby in the garage, with dirt under the nails on his calloused hands and a voice like Howlin' Wolf chewing on gravel!  *swoon*


      If I may be less shallow...


      A sense of humor is a must. He can't take things too seriously...even the things he takes seriously. He should be kind and considerate, a good listener and a good talker. Playfully immature while being professionally and financially mature...a gentleman when the situation dictates it and my rowdy best friend the rest of the partner in all things, one who understands that to me, a grand romantic gesutre isn't gifts and trips to Hawaii, it's picking up Dr. Schol's inserts for me because he saw my Facebook post about how my feet were hurting lately...

    • September 3, 2012 1:00 PM BST
    • I never read anything bad into any of these replies :-)

    • September 3, 2012 12:57 PM BST
    • Obviously a few on this site, exempt from this ribaldry and crass remarks, lol. Notably Keef and Matt

    • September 3, 2012 12:22 PM BST
    • I suddenly feel a lot better about myself...

    • August 31, 2012 10:17 PM BST
    • Tcoh..... Its ruined now :rolls eyes:

    • August 31, 2012 6:24 PM BST
    • Oh Doanna, the sorta thing that I would think of, very droll, a big fat wallet as well. I could be a great housekeeper, the pulse stops and I get to keep the house.

    • August 31, 2012 10:17 AM BST
    • PMSL Doanna

    • August 31, 2012 5:25 AM BST
    • a "pulse" would be nice!!

    • August 30, 2012 8:20 PM BST
    • Kind, considerate, understanding, a good sense of humour (he would have to have that going out with me lol), the ability to surprise me (in a nice way).

      He would have to be taller than me (preferably) and strong. I like a guy to have a little hair on his chest and arms too. He would also have to be reasonably intelligent and like some of the things that I like - although if he had different interests that would be good as he could teach me about his interests.

      I've probably missed a lot off my list too, but that will do for startes lol

      Carol xx

    • July 22, 2012 3:12 PM BST
    • does that mean Harry Potter then Keef (lol)

    • July 16, 2012 1:28 AM BST
    • So, sensitive and magical.

      No pressure, then x

    • June 28, 2012 6:41 AM BST
    • Sensitive men for me!! Someone who will try and work together and not control the situation. Good hearted guys win in my opinion! As far as looks go.. the older I've gotten the more that means less and less to me. I still have not found this person though.. alas, what does the future bring ^_^

    • June 28, 2012 3:49 AM BST
    • Keef,
      There are many things I could put down as far as what I want in a man. But there is no fixed formula for what will satisfy my needs...Some of his traits - I would want just a bit, other things...I would want more of. Some of the things I want will cancel out other requirements.
      It all has to come together in "magic blend" that satisfies my needs.

    • June 27, 2012 7:22 PM BST
    • Hi all,


      Couldn't help but notice how quiet this corner of the forum is, so I thought I'd take the opportunity to ask a simple question:


      What are you looking for in a bloke?

      (To those, who are, or have been, of course) :)



    • May 28, 2016 9:41 AM BST
    • Erm that's nice Travis, but the name of the thread is New Questions For Men, so my question to you is what is yur question for men.  Also you do know thqat his isn't a dating site?
      I do apologise if I am being rude to and I do honest hope you find your perfect woman whoever that will be.

    • May 28, 2016 3:37 AM BST
    • Hello, my friends.  My name is Travis, I'm 45 and divorced with no children and I live in southern Michigan.  I'm also transoriented.  I happen to be attracted to trans women, those who were born male but now identify as female.  I lived my life as a bisexual man for many years and gained wonderful experiences from relationships with each binary gender.  But, more recently, I'm looking deeper into my desire to somehow find someone who has "the best of both worlds."  And, no, I do not mean that in a physical or sexual way.  My motto is: I choose who to be with based upon personality, not "plumbing."

      What I'm searching for in a woman is strength and devotion to the relationship but also the fortitude to stand up to me should I make the inevitable mistake.  A woman who will stand beside me and, when I need it, will move behind me to deliver a swift kick to the behind.  Well, in short, folks - I'm looking for a partner.

      It has been a while since I was in any type of relationship with another person.  And, like so many others, it didn't end well.  But I'm not going to give up.  There's a woman out there for me.

      I'm disgusted, by the way, with the treatment of the LGBT community.  I wish there were something I could do to produce change and raise awareness for the problems that affect you and those who love and support you.


    • March 10, 2016 7:26 PM GMT
    • It's true Matt, people do come and go and I am in that category. I used to be very active here but now just pop my head in the door now and then, but it does seem rather empty without some people like yourself too. It's nice to have a variety of different people here and I feel that, at the moment, we are sadly lacking in men! 


      Let's hope some of them make their way back here, I'm sure I am not the only one that would like to see them. 


    • March 10, 2016 1:18 AM GMT
    • I don't know Nikki to be honest, at times work takes over for me & then there are personal challenges that crop up but just like some of the girls the guys seem to be here for a while and then move on. Sad but true by the looks of it....

    • March 8, 2016 8:31 PM GMT
    • Here's a question.....

      Where did all the guys go??????

      I know I haven't been on here regularly but they seem to be non-existant these days. What happened? 

    • January 19, 2016 12:16 PM GMT
    • That is my little brother, Matt.  Isn't he just so nice?

    • July 30, 2015 8:21 PM BST
    • I admire open ness & honesty, there are some people here who I would be proud to address as friends or even honorary 'sisters' & those are a few of the people who have my admiration

    • July 28, 2015 11:14 PM BST
    • Do the admirers admire you admiring the admirers?

    • July 28, 2015 10:23 PM BST
    • Some people especially the men don't like the word admirer, don't confuse the genuine admirer from the deluded closet gay or the common tranny shagger,  There are a few real genuine admirers real gentlemen, lovely personalities, great sense of humour and realy care on here, the thing is not to confuse this site with the other meat markets.   I admire the admirers we get on here.

    • June 3, 2014 3:22 PM BST
    • Cristine, Shye (GS Admin) said:
      Marsha said:-

      I also believe in the end it is the TS's decision which way to proceed. I think it is wise to listen to doctors, family and friends before making a decision, but in the end, the TS needs to be comfortable with whatever she chooses.

      Anna said:-
      Marsha, SRS isn't the be all and end all of matters.

      I think thats what is called concurring. allbeit said differently. theres too many wanting what they don't realy realise the enormalities and implications involved. Why opinions have to get so personal beggars belief, because thats all they are, individuals giving their own view on a subject.. why words like venom and hate have to be brought into a healthy debate beggars belief..

      You could'nt find anyone more feminine in her approach to life or as sophisticated as my Cass and she has no desire at the moment to opt for SRS, she is content as she is, perhaps that will change, but it won't make any difference to me. what is right for one might not be right for somone else, does'nt make for anyone being less worthwhile or less a person.

      Very well put Crissie : )

    • March 20, 2014 8:02 PM GMT
    • I think I should add that getting that Police presence there on TvChix was not hard work. Every police force has a diversity officer so , if you are a member of that site and want to make a difference then contact them. Having a local Police presence could make a big difference to others safety on that website. So just contact them with your concerns then they can be there for you too. I think there is only one other force on there and that is Tyne side as far as I can remember.


      Again please take care .


       Seeing this can make a difference . Julia

    • March 20, 2014 7:08 PM GMT
    • Suzy you are correct most members of that site only want TG partners. Also most of them only want one thing and that is sex. Most of them are gay or bisexual and there is nothing wrong in that but , most of them are in denial. They say they only like females then follow that "With a little bit extra" In other words they are intrested in what is between the legs not the person or personality.

      TvChix is just a pick up joint for sexual head cases in my opinion , but that is just my opinion. It does nothing to help Transgenders it does the opposite! It gives us a bad reputation and makes us look like a load of sex crazed loonies not normal human beings.


      I recently closed my account there because I was blocking about 10 members a day. So why was I there? Well not looking for sex or a partner , in the unlikely event that I do find a partner it will be face to face in my day to day life.


      I was there for one reason only and you can do a search for it on there @Suffolk_Police

      It was me who got that police presence on that website because of my concerns about some members. The police did not have the resources to police it when the cut backs came so I policed it for them hence  my presence there. It drained my brain to be honest but I done my duty and had success in having some people looked into and removed from the site and that included a police officer who was reprimanded for his behaviour. Gives me the creeps thinking about some of the messages I had on there.


      Everyone on that website should be very aware that there are some very strange people in this world.


      You all take care.



    • March 20, 2014 4:29 PM GMT
    • On (I may have said this before) there are many TG girls who don't want any to do with men but prefer TG girls which is odd for me.  As a TG girl, I perfer men than GGs or TG girls, no offence to anyone but to me this is a natural non gay to be with a man as a TG girl.
      As you said Jacqueline, diversity is a good thing and we should celebrate, encourage and accept it.

    • March 19, 2014 2:49 AM GMT
    • Madeleine and Suzy-


      I am really glad that you revived this important topic. The thread got way off target to another important topic so I am glad it is back again.


      I have had many years  to think about this question, and I have come to the conclusion that life is simply a rainbow. You can articulate the various vermetations and combinations yourselves.  I think that the reason that some men prefer TG, crossdressing girls, is that this is the spectrum of the rainbow which their psyche has decided is most pleasing to them. Nothing perverted, but just a consequence of their thoughts given to the subject and their own natural passions. All perfectly healthy and grand. Unfortunately, I cannot speak from experience, but I fantisize about being intimate with a lean handsome guy ----as well as a TG, crossdresser. As a matter of fact, it is my observation that MOST of the conversations on TG sites where sexual relations are discussed revolve around two TG "girls" becoming intimate. This is just another sector of the rainbow. Diversity is a beautiful concept, and I believe we should all just let nature take its course and enjoy living. 


      One aspect that my psyche does not understand is that, apparently, there are MANY people in the GS who are TG people who want to be as feminine as possible, but wish to have no sexual interactions with either men or TG people. Viewing that sector of the rainbow from my part of it does not seem logical, but I praise their resolve to be who they want to be.




    • March 5, 2014 12:34 PM GMT
    • I have to say that I did meet a lovely gentleman online several years ago and unfortuately lost contact with him.  He liked me for being Suzy and nothing else and it didn't feel that he just wanted to hook up or anything but I did feel that there was a connection between us and wish I was still in contact with him.

    • March 2, 2014 9:59 PM GMT
    • I haven't read all the posts yet, but this is a very interesting thread...

      Is there really such thing as a true gentlemen who might truly like a girl like me? One who would be patient, caring, and understanding?


      p.s.  I stumbled across this old thread, hope it's okay to have revived it...

    • May 21, 2016 11:14 PM BST
    • Hi, everyone.  I'm Travis, a 45 year old bisexual guy from Coldwater, Michigan.  I'm a big admirer of the transgender community and how the members have stood up and said, "We're here.  Deal with it."  Now, as for those so-called "bathroom laws," they make me sick.  When will discrimination - in WHATEVER form, for WHATEVER reason - come to an end?  I love making friends and maybe, just maybe, I can meet someone special here.  I look forward to hearing from you.  Drop me a line.

    • January 28, 2014 5:49 PM GMT
    • I actually disagree. I think that guys can still be straight. It all depends on how they view the woman,i.e. a woman but with slightly different genitals, but still a woman. Others, I have no doubt are simply hiding bisexual feelings and are more at ease with a woman with a penis than they would be with a man. These people are just hiding from themselves and a liaison with them can be dangerous.  


      Personally, I think people should stop worrying over who they are attracted to and simply go with that attraction. If you like the person, the gender is irrelevant. Who cares what's in their knickers?

    • January 19, 2014 4:56 PM GMT
    • Nikki Hollm said:

      Why do so many guys who are 'straight' want to try something with a TV/TS? The only difference between us and a GG is what's between our legs and if that's the interest then are they still straight? 




      I would say no.



    • January 19, 2014 3:56 PM GMT
    • I'm impressed that you weren't frightened off by all of these comments Adam, so who knows, you might just find what you are looking for after all. 


      Anybody you meet, (and hopefully it's not just for sex), just treat them as a normal woman and you should have no problems, assuming you like each other to begin with! 


      'More of a giver than a taker....' Well, that depends on what you are giving and what you are taking doesn't it? Wink

    • January 17, 2014 10:08 AM GMT
    • Ah! that's better,    Can also be ''Fatal attraction'' when you meet someone, the sex won't be your first consideration or thought,   A woman who has a sense of humour, she might be erudite and inteligent, even vaguely interesting, lol.


      You don't frequent gay clubs or tranny clubs, I don't either.    Would you be happy meeting all of the obove in an ordinary bar, pub, where the lady might not be a hundred percent convincing, perhaps just the voice is a give away, be prepared for strange and discerning looks could you handle that?    Relationships are not relegated to the bedroom or dark alleys, lol..


      Just a thought.


      Your just what? 23, I'm flirting and teasing, lol

    • January 16, 2014 11:56 PM GMT
    • Hi everyone,

      First of all I'd like to thank everyone for replying, it really is appreciated.

      Secondly I'd sincerely like to apologise to anyone I may have offended, honestly that really wasn't my intention. I didn't mean for it to sound like the beautiful women here are just a piece of meat.

      Thirdly, I see your point Cristine, I always thought I was completely straight, but maybe that's just what I'm trying to tell myself?

      See, that's one of the main reasons I came on the site, because I have never had the chance to meet or even chat to a trans before, the only people that I have been sexually attracted to are women, but the idea of a trans actually does appeal to me, so maybe I DO have a gay leaning, I'm just not sure and that is the only reason I said I would like to experiment, I can understand how that may have come accross as being quite rude and inconsiderate to members and for that I am sorry.

      Finally, I think (and of course I can't say with a guarantee because I have never been with a trans before - there's always a first time for everything) that I would very much be able to please a trans (if given the opportunity). I am more of a giver than a taker ;) lol. Other than that, if I ever did get the oportunity, that individual would hold my utmost respect, as I would be eternally greatful if that makes sense.

      Adam x

    • January 14, 2014 2:47 PM GMT
    • Everyone wants their 'tranny experience' don't they, after having seen so many TS porn movies online..........


      Real life just isn't like that. 

    • January 13, 2014 9:14 PM GMT
    • Well Adam,

      Here are some points of advice for you;


      1. This site is not a place to find or arrange 'discreet' hook-ups as you refer to. The ladies here are just that ladies, it takes time to get to know them & just like other ladies they need to be treated as such.


      2. Having a picture of yourself on your profile helps too as it shows that your a real person too, try appearing in the chatroom & joining in the chat there.


      3. I suspect your previous 'experience' of Trans ladies will have been through films & unfortunatly the reality is a lot different, so be prepared for disappointment.


      as it has been said earlier if you are looking for a 'wham bam thanks ma'am' then tv chix would be the site for you

    • January 13, 2014 2:27 PM GMT
    • Why do so many guys who are 'straight' want to try something with a TV/TS? The only difference between us and a GG is what's between our legs and if that's the interest then are they still straight? 


      Personally, I hate the whole gay/straight things as it's two black and white and if you are attracted to someone then go for it, and stop worrying their gender. Gender is not black and white, as we all know, and neither is sexuality. 


      I can't blame the guy for approaching us, he's curious and wants to see what's it like. There's nothing wrong with that. However, I would be cautious about having sex with a 'neewbie' as assuming he wants a pre-op girl, he has to know how to treat her sexually. There will be a penis there which he has to deal with, and we need a little help in the lubrication dept. Tongue out There are also many cases of guys turning on the girl afterwards because they feel guilt about having had sex with someone who has a penis. The girl has to be very cautious. 




    • January 13, 2014 1:40 PM GMT
    • ''I am a straight guy, always have been,''     Are you now on the turn?  ''and now its got to the point where I get extremely turned on just thinking about things''.    Question of straigh whatever depends on how you view/imagine sex with a transexual?    How do you imagine  sex with say a pre-op,    How would you sexually satisfy one.     I could probably accept your whish to experiment, but lets not get carried away with the staight and heterosexual bit.


      I have had a few encounters with ''straight'' per se males, who just delude themselves that they don't have gay leanings, and this is just self induced denial.


      Cynically Cristine Shye.

    • January 12, 2014 2:38 AM GMT
    • Maggie's probably right with that, but if you decide to stay here, the girls here aren't "looking" for sex, so be polite, be sweet, be respectful, and treat us like you would any of the genetic women you date.......................unless you want to feel like a hunk of tuna that just got tossed in the shark tank.  No one here likes a troll, so if you stay, be a gentleman.

    • January 11, 2014 6:30 PM GMT
    • Try TVChix sweetie, it's more of a dating site.

    • January 11, 2014 4:41 PM GMT
    • Hi everyone,

      I am a straight guy, always have been, I get loads of straight sex and that's all fine. I have always had an attraction to trans though, and now its got to the point where I get extremely turned on just thinking about things. I am looking for a TG/TV/TS to maybe explore certain things with.. I am from Birmingham, UK, and I have only ever tried pulling females, I wouldn't feel comfortable going to a gay club as one of my friends suggested, just because its only the trans that I would be after. Whenever I do a search online all it comes up with are TV escorts. I have never used an escort and don't really fancy the idea of it to be honest. So my question is, how exactly do I discreetly find a tran who would be interested?

      Kind Regards,

      Adam x

    • October 8, 2012 10:27 AM BST
    • hi Ian im new here to, tgough not new to being a "girl" so have fun