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    • March 6, 2012 2:32 AM GMT
    • Excellent point Traci, an how much pain does one want to start out with. Then we can add in the pain in the wallet....just a little snicker with a big ouch.

    • March 5, 2012 7:53 PM GMT
    • remove what hair? Facial, body???

    • March 4, 2012 2:29 PM GMT
    • hi there i need some advice  on hair removal i am worryied about useing my laser hair remaoval   so can some one help me

    • March 5, 2012 10:46 PM GMT
    • rosie,i appreciate the welcome. seems like a nice nabe, time to cruise the block. love mitzy

    • February 18, 2012 2:33 PM GMT
    • thanks for the welcome

    • January 28, 2012 6:20 PM GMT

      A warm welcome to all new members, I have been a member since September 2011 and forum moderator since December 2011; I have found the site very friendly and worthwhile and quickly made new friends, and soon upgraded to full membership.


      Some of you may wish to expand on your own experiences, if so you may add your own story to this forum.


      You will be able to make new friends and obtain advice and support from other members who are always willing to help. You are invited to join us in the Chat Room, - it is usually busy during the evening- and into the small hours (U K Time) – it can be both fun and informative, all be it a bit hectic at times (it is sometimes called the mad house) but you will soon get into it and join in. It can be found at - Or under Community features -second down. It is also worth exploring the forums as many of them contain lots of useful tips and advice, answering many of the questions newcomers ask


      If you are new to the scene don’t worry as many others have gone before, if you have any questions just ask, someone will always be able to help. Finally I hope you enjoy your time on the site.





       "I would like to remind members, that pictures displayed on the home page (which will include your profile picture), must have a modicum of decorum, no wilies,bums or bulging panties.
         No links to offensive material, porn sites etc, including personal website that display pictures or content that may offend other members of this site should be posted either in the forums, on your own profile or on the home page.
       Please be aware that any picture posted into any of your photo albums WILL also appear on the front page as soonas you upload the image into your album."

    • March 4, 2012 12:52 PM GMT
    • Monika is hot!

    • March 4, 2012 12:50 PM GMT
    • Thanks sweetie

    • March 4, 2012 12:09 PM GMT
    • Welcome to TGS Elle! You will make a lot of new friends and find a lot of support here. This place has been like a lifeline for me since 2003! Hope to chat with you soon!

      Hugs & kisses,


    • March 4, 2012 4:10 AM GMT
    • Just wants to say thank you for such a wonderful site; I feel welcome and in a very short time I have been made on of the girls.
      Go girls

    • January 26, 2012 5:34 PM GMT
    • Hi Monika,

      In alll honesty, I am glad to be here and glad to have made it this far! I do hope you are right, though I know you are.


    • January 25, 2012 10:32 AM GMT
    • Hi Alexis, and welcome to The Gender Society!  You are in good company...I think many or most of us wish that we had come to terms with who we are...years before we did.  Here you will make many new friends and find a lot of support.  I know you're going to enjoy your stay here.  Hope to meet you in the chat room soon!


      Hugs & kisses,



    • January 23, 2012 11:51 PM GMT
    • Hi everyone,

      My name is Alexis, and I am currently a resident of the fair state of Nevada and I am current living here in Vegas. Only a few months ago, I finally broke down the walls I had put up around myself and admitted to myself and others that I am Transgender. My regret is that I had not done so sooner in my life... However, that is niether here nor there, the past is past. What is important now, is how I live currently, and that is honestly. To myself and those around me.  Renewed and awakened with new life, I have stepped forth on the beginning steps to be who I actually have always been, just buried under the surface. I have been on HRT for a few months and am looking to start electrolysis as soon as I am able.


      Just to let me let my feelings be known, It is my joy to be here and a pleasure to meet you all. Might, I hope our time together yield great rewards to us all,


      Thank you for your time,

    • January 24, 2012 4:43 PM GMT
    • Thank you all so much! You made me feel welcomed in a world I love so much!..I know now I came to the right place... you all showed me this with your beautiful heart,your acceptance and kindness towards me. I can't begin to tell you how much this made me feel inside..but I can tell you I appreciate and love you all for it! Thank you all for making me feel at home...because I believe I found it!

      warm hugs & kisses

    • January 23, 2012 5:25 PM GMT
    • Thanks Monika, i really appreciate your words, i'm so glad to find here many people who understand me and makes me feel at home. kisses

    • January 22, 2012 8:39 AM GMT
    • Thank you for that warm welcome Monika.You are very sweet.I do feel very comfortable here and have found a lot of good direction,advice and support in such a short time.

    • January 21, 2012 11:33 PM GMT
    • Collette & Lisbeth,


      Also want to welcome you both here as well!  I've been a member here since 2003 and have met many wonderful people here and have gotten so much support over the years.  Enjoy your stay here!


      Hugs & kisses,



    • January 21, 2012 11:02 PM GMT
    • Hi Paige,


      Welcome The Gender Society!  You've definately come to the best website for support and for meeting some really cool people!  I'm sure you're going to enjoy the time you spend here.  Hope to meet you in the chatroom soon! 


      Hugs & kisses,



    • January 20, 2012 5:23 PM GMT
    • Hi Paige, your story is really similar to mine, it's hard to live a double life, i dress up at home alone and i really feel that is my true essence, but nobody knows i do it. I'm a member sice few days but i can tell you it's really comforting to know there is a world that resembles to you. Welcome here, i wish you all the best. 

    • January 20, 2012 12:32 AM GMT
    • Hello Paige,I've only been here a short time myself.Already I am 100% more comfortable and confident in my lifes walk.Great friends and great advice with support.So welcome and may we all journey together.

    • January 19, 2012 10:43 PM GMT
    • Hi Paige ,Welcome to GS hope you make new friends and find answers to questions you might have ,you have come to the right place. xxxxxx

    • January 19, 2012 7:40 PM GMT
    • Lillith Cross said:
      Hi ya Paige. Welcome. You've deffo come to the right place. It's great to have you with us. Hugs lillith

      Thank you Lillith for your warm welcome! It feels nice to be excepted and to be here with you all!

    • January 17, 2012 9:13 AM GMT
    • Hi paige, you have made a great start and will soon make lots of good friends. Rosie

    • January 17, 2012 7:41 AM GMT
    • Hi ya Paige. Welcome. You've deffo come to the right place. It's great to have you with us. Hugs lillith

    • January 17, 2012 2:28 AM GMT
    • My names Paige and I just wanted to take the time to say.. Hi  everyone!  This is all very new to me, as to actually finding a community of people I can express and relate with, about a side of my life that has been hidden from the public, including freinds and family. It just seems nice to be able to communicate my inner desires as to be a woman, with another person other then myself. I'm happy to have found and be apart of your community, and I want to wish you all well in your own journey!

    • January 19, 2012 3:25 PM GMT
    • I grew up in Suruoka Japan with my Dad and grandmother who are Japanese. My other half is Ethiopian (Mother). Essentially I am a Japanese woman or sure as hell yell like one lol! I spend 12 years in the USAF as a fighter jock flying f-16C's and later the F-22. Got divorced while in the USAF (good riddance!) and been single since. A few years ago while I was discovering my new self I was diagnosed having gynecomastia (Yas I was I have B cups!) at a time I was thinking should I transition and just discovering myself so I took it as a sign from the gods (I practice Shinto) that I should transition and been on that path since. I am enjoying the new people I am meeting and hope meaningful friendships can develop.


      Japanese version below.


      私は日本人である私の祖母鶴岡市の、日本で育ちました私の残りの半分エチオピアです基本的に私は1つのLOLのような日本人女性一体叫び声のような確信私はF-16C、後でF - 22飛行戦闘機大好きな人としてUSAF12年間過ごした一方、USAF厄払い年に離婚して以来、シングルてしまった私は私の新しい自己を発見している間、数年前、私が考えていた時に化乳房ヤス私はBカップを持っていた有する遷移必要と診断され、私はから記号としてそれを取ったので、単に自分自身を発見私は神道練習その私が移行して以来、そのパスされるとすれば私は会議の有意義な友情開発できます願って新しい人々を楽しん

    • January 17, 2012 9:16 AM GMT
    • Hi D, you have come to the right place and will soon make friends who will support you Rosie

    • January 16, 2012 9:57 AM GMT
    • Hi. Just on here looking for some girlie friends to message or get together, dress, talk and maybe go out and about. Im really new to this as ive been trying to fight my dressing for ages but without success. I think ive been trying to catagorise myself so I can fit in with what others seem to want me to be, but that didnt work, basically becuase everyone wants different things and none of them are what I want. So sod 'em im gonna be what i want to be....just I dont know who that is yet. hmmm anyway message me to say hi or whatever and ill try and get back to you as soon as poss. DD x

    • January 14, 2012 11:41 AM GMT
    • Thank you so much for the welcome.

    • January 1, 2012 6:26 PM GMT
    • Hi Monica, thanks for that lovely post, you are so so lucky to have shuch an understanding wife who supports and helps you -- they are rare indeed. my late wife was the complete opposite, apart from that we have a lot in common, exept that i am not very convincing .
      Rosie xxx

    • December 31, 2011 10:47 AM GMT
    • Hi, 

      I'm new here, this is my first post. I've been crossdressing for 40 years now, and have only come to fully appreciate my uniqueness in that regard within the last 12 years. That's when I started searching on the internet for others like me.  

      Six years ago I've come out to my wife as Monica and she went nuts taking me to stores to help me buy lots of new and exciting lingerie and clothing. I wear my new clothing everyday and every second I can but I don't go outside so much as I like. Sometimes I go to shop alone, enfemme, delightful. Last spring my wife and I spent a week in London  with me in full fem mode, day and night. I have a quite good voice and I think I pass very well . 

      I LOVE to dress up but I don't want any surgery because I like being a guy when I'm a guy. I've got the best of both worlds!

      Monica Chanel

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    • December 30, 2011 12:08 PM GMT
    • Hi Anya,
      Hope you find many friends and o few tips or info along the way. welcome to GS.

    • December 30, 2011 8:55 AM GMT
    • Hmm, well I just joined the site since it looks like the kind of place i've been looking for for awhile now and I don't know what else to really type up sooooo Hi!

    • December 29, 2011 9:10 AM GMT
    • Thanks Rose, hope you enjoy the site

    • December 29, 2011 12:05 AM GMT
    • Hello...I'm Rose from Las Vegas...a new member here though I have been in transition for 14yrs, 3yrs full time...A western country gurl, I'm not much into nightclubs and glamourus living...but just a down home gurl...I hope you are all well and happy...Huggz Rose

    • December 21, 2011 2:28 AM GMT
    • Thank you so much for the welcome! I do have many questions, from make-up and clothing tips to how to handle the obstacles and pitfalls that may arise as I explore more of who I am. It is good just knowing there are people out there like me, that I am not as alone in this as I think or feel. Yay!

    • December 20, 2011 10:47 PM GMT
    • Hi Gee,
      I hope you find TGS a safe harbor in which to chat meet new friends and just be yourself. The girls here have been thru quite a bit, so they can usually offer advise on navigating the new self. Welcome! Michelle Lynn

    • December 20, 2011 2:34 AM GMT
    • Hi Gee,

      Welcome to the mad house hunnie. I am sure you will soon feel at home here and soon will be making lots of new friends.
      As F. D. Roosevelt once so aptly said "the only thing to fear is fear itself"
      Carol xx

    • December 20, 2011 1:07 AM GMT
    • Hi, I just wanted to take a second to say hello. I have only just begun to allow myself to really explore this side of who I am. This part of me has been there for a long time, but I have been pushing it away out of fear. I am glad to see I am not alone and I hope that I can meet some people here who I can learn from and learn to accept myself. Thanks! :)

    • December 20, 2011 2:41 AM GMT
    • Welcome to the Mad House Stephanie -I am sure you will find many kindred spirits amongst us. Carol xx

    • December 20, 2011 12:08 AM GMT
    • Hi Stephanie, welcome to GS. I hope you have as much fun and find as many good friends as i have. if you wish to write in any forum or blog you will find many kindred spirits. Support and friendship count for so much here. speak soon and take care

      Faye xxx

    • December 18, 2011 10:26 PM GMT
    • thanks stephanie, enjoy the site

    • December 18, 2011 9:32 PM GMT
    • Hiya girls ...just a quick hello ...I have just joined the site tonight the very early stages of finding me and friendship is something I would love...I have also got lots to give as

    • December 19, 2011 10:38 AM GMT
    • Hi Stephanie. Welcome. It's great to have you here. You will soon make some very good new friends and there's always plenty of support here too. You've deffo come to the right place. Hugs Lillith x

    • December 18, 2011 9:32 PM GMT
    • Hiya girls ...just a quick hello ...I have just joined the site tonight the very early stages of finding me and friendship is something I would love...I have also got lots to give as

    • December 18, 2011 12:29 PM GMT
    • Thank you, Faye. I'll do just that. If I can help anyone in any way, I'll be more than happy to put forth the effort.

    • December 18, 2011 12:13 PM GMT
    • Hello Morgan,

      welcome to The Gender Society. For an introduction you did very well. Many of the people who come to the site seek friends and advice from those in a similar position.
      Being transgendered is a state of mind and body that many folks can't or are unwilling to understand.
      Being a MTF transexxual i can identify with many of the issues you describe regarding coming out to family members. Having a voice in any forum is important and i and many others would like to know how you coped with your coming out especially to family. The idea of putting your feelings in a post is very cathartic.
      Please feel free to post in the Coming out forum. Having a FTM post will hopefully help others in the same position and will give an insight into the issues you faced.
      In here we often talk in the chat room, post our inner most thoughts and feeling and generally aid each other, in what is the biggest decision a person can make regarding their lifestyle choice and future happiness.
      i hope to speak to you soon and please feel free to contact any member if you wish to talk to them. we have more in common than many think regardless of our chosen gender.
      Good luck and be happy. x

    • December 18, 2011 11:14 AM GMT
    • Hello! How are you all? Please, call me Morgan or Morgue, whatever you would rather. ^^


      I'm not usually very good at the introduction thing, so wish me luck.


      I am a twnety year old homosexual man who is caged in the body of a woman. I know, it may be a little confusing, but all of you here will probably have an easier time understanding me than anyone else.


      Though my interests are wide and vast, I'm not really sure where to start on saying what I like and dislike, so please, feel free to ask me any and all questions. I will be more than happy to answer. I know I can be shy at first, so I appologize if I seem kinda stand-off-ish. I'm really an open person, just a little gun shy, y'know?


      Again, feel free to ask me anything, or talk to me about anything. I'm willing to be the ear to listen or the shoulder of comfort if you need it, or if you simply want to chat about random little things, then that is fine as well!


      Hope you are all doing well,


    • December 18, 2011 9:30 AM GMT
    • Thanks for your input keira and lillith, you are both so lucky to have such supportive partners

    • December 18, 2011 8:02 AM GMT
    • Hiya Keira. First of all welcome to the site. I'm sure you will find lots of support here and make loads of great new friends. It's so good to hear that your wife is so supportive. Mine is too. She has been great since I came out to her earlier this year. I like you feel so blessed to have here in my life. Take care. Hugs Lillith