It was a long time ago. Trannyweb was what this online... moreIt was a long time ago. Trannyweb was what this online community was originally called. We had to change the name because the word ‘tranny’ became increasingly toxic and we had to change our rickety old software because the developers would no longer support it.
I vaguely remember we had asked the existing members to come up with a new name and Gender Society won. I think a lot of our members at the time wanted us to distance our community from the other cattle market sites out there so we needed to sound more respectable.Trannyweb was a busy and vibrant community though (started in 1999) with lots of people online at any one time. The forums were the jewel in the crown as you can see from the huge number of threads and forum posts (which by the way, are still available today).
The transition to The Gender Society took place in 2011. Unfortunately, a lot of the long-time regulars who used to be permanently logged in, didn’t like the change... less
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Gender variant (trans or transgender) people are relatively rarely seen in GP surgeries. Many GPs say that they lack the knowledge to treat those experiencinggender variant conditions and, consequently, they are not confident to do so.The first part of this publication provides an overview of care for trans people that is particularly applicable to GPs. Hormone therapy is central to transgender primarycare, and issues such as assessment and diagnosis are also relevant to general practice. These topics are discussed in greater detail in Annexes C and D. Clinical care for gender variant people should be provided within a framework of good practice that emphasises patient autonomy, allows for the wide variety of needs among trans people and is flexible in its clinical responses to those needs. It should also take account... less
Christine your information I don't think ever goes unnoticed, I... moreChristine your information I don't think ever goes unnoticed, I have always enjoyed your articles, very informative and thought provoking.
I just wished you were in the states to give such accurate content, but then under this current administration and political conflict I think you might find it quite egregious,
There was a time in the states when we were moving in a very positive direction, sadly we have faltered and at best stagnated our trans direction.
Huggs Tammy
I think I joined about 2004-2005, Organised themed chat... moreI think I joined about 2004-2005, Organised themed chat parties, lot of fun, about 2007 I was made head of forums, made a lot of amusing and factual posts even some controversial ones, many taken out of context, but always attracted attention and responses if some were very negative. When Trannyweb became the Gender society I gathered a few people to become site moderators lovely helpful team, keeping the site clear of trolls, keeping the home page clear of sleaze and wiping out literally 1000's of spams. Shame that when I stepped back from heading up that team due to studying and work I was unable to devote as much attention as the site needed many of the site and forum mods just seemed to vanish, lose interest. I will always remember some advice Katie gave mewhen in the early days of being a mod, I was verbally abused, it upset me and I threatened to leave,Katie said if someone on your land line gives you grief, do you cut your phone off. Of course... less
What effect does female hormone therapy have on a male, and how... moreWhat effect does female hormone therapy have on a male, and how soon?
The longer after puberty hormone therapy is started, the less effective it is--but not a linear scale, e.g., results are considerably more dramatic in an 18 year old than a 28 year old, but results are not on the average dramatically different between a 38 year old and a 48 year old.
The following effects have been observed in varying degrees--anywhere from little to moderate--with extended treatment. With effective and continuous dosages, most of the changes that a particular body is genetically prone to start within 2 to 4 months, will start leveling off somewhat within 2 years, and be mostly done within 5 years. The leveling may take longer if the testes are not removed. High levels of estrogen will cause faster development up to a point, but not better results in the long term than moderate levels of estrogen..
Fertility decreases. Sperm count drops rapidly. Sometimes it returns to almost normal if hormonal treatment is... less
Hello and welcome everybody.After a fervent spell of gender dysphoria over recent months and a lot of soul searching this weekend I've accepted I need to make more changes in my... moreHello and welcome everybody.After a fervent spell of gender dysphoria over recent months and a lot of soul searching this weekend I've accepted I need to make more changes in my life than label myself as non-binary and continue cross dressing. instead I've reconciled my current thoughts with various actions and episodes and a fair bit of cross dressing over my lifetime and reached the decision to embrace transitioning to the female identity which better reflects my personality and attributes.The key ignition has been ever growing discomfort in the workplace as I predominantly work with cis males and any email to us collectively is 'Hey Guys\Chaps\Gents' and the presumed pronouns applied went from bemusement to anger over the months. I have never seen myself as 'one of the lads' and could feel myself slipping into anonymity as well as a fair bit of anxiety about attending the workplace - I'm one of those whom has enjoyed the opportunity to work from home.I had thought of regarding myself as non-binary... less
Hi there.
When I finally admitted to myself that I was transgender and not just a crossdresser I went to my doctor and said I think I may be transgender and he replied "I... more
Hi there.
When I finally admitted to myself that I was transgender and not just a crossdresser I went to my doctor and said I think I may be transgender and he replied "I know you are transgender" (I had been wearing skirts for around 10 years but always told people that I just preferred them to pants) and straight away he phoned our local gender identity clinic and they gave me an appointment for in 1 month's time to the day I asked for a letter so I had proof I was transgender and living full time as female which he did straight away and gave it to me.
I left there and went home and wrote out a Deed Pole and then told all of my family who were all ok with it then sent copys of the deed pole along with copies of the doctors letter to change my driving licence, passport, bank details ECT the only one who caused a problem was PayPal who wanted something official it took me several weeks to get them to change my details, the one I expected to be a problem was the army for my pension but they... less
Hi everyone - I think as little as three weeks ago I didn't imagine I'd be here doing this. But... here I am having told all the important people in my life (well outside of... moreHi everyone - I think as little as three weeks ago I didn't imagine I'd be here doing this. But... here I am having told all the important people in my life (well outside of family) that I'm transgendered, I always have been, and that I'm seeking to be referred to a gender therapist.
I'm 35 years old now... I was first on this site under another name 10 years ago, when I had just come out to my girlfriend who was incredibly supportive. I didn't know the way life was going to go from then. My girlfriend became very very ill, both physically and mentally, before suddenly passing away just under 3 years ago. Something I am honestly still working through. She was just 32 and she was so wonderful, and became so not herself, incredibly so near the end. It's been so tough.
The bi-product of all this was my girl side never got a real opportunity to breathe. Eventually she got put in a box. Life was complicated enough. I got depressed without really realizing it and completely let myself go. I hated what I saw... less
How many of us realize how little time we really have left? Many t-gurls and crossdressers put off pursuing their dreams to “tomorrow.” Before you know it, you are in your 80s... moreHow many of us realize how little time we really have left? Many t-gurls and crossdressers put off pursuing their dreams to “tomorrow.” Before you know it, you are in your 80s and your opportunity to live a woman’s life is essentially gone.
Buddists, the Stoics, the samurai, and the ancient Roman Catholics, to name a few cultures, meditated on death, daily. It reminded them that time is fleeting and our days are numbered. One Zen evening chant goes like this: “Let me respectfully remind you Life and Death are of supreme importance. Time swiftly passes by and opportunity is lost. Each of us should strive to awaken. Awaken. Take heed. This night your days are diminished by one. Do not squander your life.”
Every day, I do something, however small, to move me closer to being a woman. Be it wearing panties to work under my male clothes or letting my hair grow longer. All too soon I will be old and unable to be a woman. Others will (hopefully) care for me, but not understand my desire for... less
I am slowly becomming a shemale and it has affected me so I have released 2 music album about it. Icewinter/Lisa and Latin Gringo/Girls -they are on all streamingservices and the... moreI am slowly becomming a shemale and it has affected me so I have released 2 music album about it. Icewinter/Lisa and Latin Gringo/Girls -they are on all streamingservices and the painting I did on the frontcover is all shemales.
This is an amazing journey and I havent seen the end of it yet.
I'm a lifelong Tranny and I like Men and Women. I'm out to a lot of people and I kept it a secret from others. I hope I don't sound hostile,I wasn't scared! I didn't think it was... moreI'm a lifelong Tranny and I like Men and Women. I'm out to a lot of people and I kept it a secret from others. I hope I don't sound hostile,I wasn't scared! I didn't think it was 10,000 people's business. But I always sensed the day would come and I would be out to a big percentage of the people who know me including old elementary school buddies and my nephew and practically all of my cousins. So one day I was riding along with my sister. We were on our way to Home Depot or WalMart(I forget which). She asked me straight out of the blue "why are all of your facebook freinds transvestites,transexuals,gay men,lesbians,crossdressers,drag kings,drag queens and are you one of them? I was swimming up stream so I went ahead and I said "yes,I'm one of them" My sister said "it's alright,don't give it a second thought" Cheers, Samantha Jane
Hello there. My name is Mark and I am seeking some advice for a situation.
I am a straight man. My older brother is gay and I accepted him wholeheartedly when he came out. I've... moreHello there. My name is Mark and I am seeking some advice for a situation.
I am a straight man. My older brother is gay and I accepted him wholeheartedly when he came out. I've gone to bars with him and consider myself very open minded and gay-friendly.
My situation is this: I recently became friends with a guy I work with and through him met his younger brother who just turned 18. I've become friends with him as well since we all work together. I like the kid but it is pretty obvious that he is in the closet. I know better than to confront him. A person has to make that journey on his own timetable.
The problem is I think he has a crush on me. Several times he has greeted me by saying "Hey Beautiful". He's always touching my arm or shoulder in a way that straight men usually don't. He looks at me when he thinks I can't see. There are other signs as well, which I consider flattering but not reciprocal. He knows I'm straight. My gf and I have been together for four years.
I want to discourage him... less
Hi! So, I just passed a tipping point; but where next? I want to nudge gently to reveal slowly to my wife because she is my best friend, but I am suddenly wondering if I am... moreHi! So, I just passed a tipping point; but where next? I want to nudge gently to reveal slowly to my wife because she is my best friend, but I am suddenly wondering if I am doing the wrong thing and should instead continue to keep it all hidden from her and find other outlets……. But after so many years of doing that and having all that anxiety eating inside at me, I increasingly feel the urge to come out and … well to BE ME.…. So, Help! Which way forward, what specifically can I do to move in the right way?
I have shaved legs for years (conveniently, I am a mad keen cyclist with lots of creams to rub in) and wear my nails longer than “normal.” I’ve been nudging a little recently, by asking and receiving understanding to wear my favourite black opaque tights around the house, with shorts, not a skirt, (that is still a “no, no.”) It is part of my desire to have my feminine side gradually accepted for existing; to do what I want to do in my own home; but am I doing this with the... less
I know there are probably a-lot of topics covering this issue and i am sure they are good but not quite as personalized as I have been looking.
First a little background... moreI know there are probably a-lot of topics covering this issue and i am sure they are good but not quite as personalized as I have been looking.
First a little background information. I have an uncle who game out as gay a few years ago and my family cut all communication with them because they are all super mormons and he has been shunned ever since he came out. I am worried about what my family will do when I come out as trans. I have come out to my sister and she is okay with it but I am afraid of everyone else's reaction.
Secondly, I am living with my so called girlfriend (long story short its a complicated situation) and she is the one paying all the bills at the moment when I am finishing my school.
I guess my question is, when would be the best time to come out and suggestions on how I can come out? less
Hi :),
my appologies, if I chose the wrong forum.
And I am sure, what will follow will in some shape or form been posted here somewhere a (felt) million times. But I just... moreHi :),
my appologies, if I chose the wrong forum.
And I am sure, what will follow will in some shape or form been posted here somewhere a (felt) million times. But I just need to write it down and tell someone. The internet is patient and a great listener. Sometimes rubbish in giving advise or even mean. But you can hide behind a keyboard and a screen and create the character you want. Yes, the mask will fall eventually...
Anyway, I am sure you got the point ;).
I am at the end of my 30s and weird in many ways. I have been batteling with my inner voices since I am a teenager. I was jealous of women. What they wear, their hair, make up, skin... I wanted to be like them.
I wore my 1st dress when I was 20. A friend gave it to me, when she blackmailed me to come to her birthday party with a crossdressing theme. (I never gave it back.) For everyone it was fun. But for me it was torture. I loved wearing it. And I certainly spend a lot of time looking at me wearing it in the mirror. (before and... less
Well told the wife and was going ok, she knew something was going on we talk for about an hour and then she ask if the girls knew i said yes and everthing when downhill fast she... moreWell told the wife and was going ok, she knew something was going on we talk for about an hour and then she ask if the girls knew i said yes and everthing when downhill fast she started cying becaus he was not the first to know and the irls didn't care for her, then I started to say I so sorry for everything and I should had never came out to anybody. she when to sleep and I was all alone feeling so bad and crying and could not sleep very bad things was going though my mind that had not be there in a very long time I almost got out of bed and do the unthinkable then my girls face pop into my head once again they saved my life. still very sad and lonely I think I will be ok, sorry for dumping this on here just no one to talk to didn't want my girls to know how close I came last night.
Thank you
Vanessa
Just had to tell someone else, I came out to my girls and they are so happy for me and are happy to help with makeup and anything else I may need help with, I had been... less
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I am loking for girl friendly hotels in uk/ europe to just visit and relax without any problems
Does anyone have any suggestions/ experiance of staying in these... moreHi
I am loking for girl friendly hotels in uk/ europe to just visit and relax without any problems
Does anyone have any suggestions/ experiance of staying in these places
It has been a year, and they didn't exactly take it well, as I am still living at home, not transitioning in any way, and they won't really talk to me about it. Any advice would... moreIt has been a year, and they didn't exactly take it well, as I am still living at home, not transitioning in any way, and they won't really talk to me about it. Any advice would be beyond greatly appreciated, whether it is how to talk to my parents about it without blowing up, how to get my own place while living at home, etc.
I am going to post the link to the letter. It is a google drive file, so let me know if there is any trouble accessing it.
https://drive.google.com/file/d/0BxKGkql1AnzxRWZWa1lWUnlqZms/view?usp=sharing less