December 2, 2006 12:33 AM GMT
***WARNING!!! MINA’S RANTING AGAIN!!!***
Luvs--
I have held off on this topic, and I
may come to regret what I write—for some reason, I seem to be on the rag today. Then again, I may not.
In one respect, Frances is right. All y’all
get a backbone! Geeeez!
We all look silly without one…like rubber chickens. Kind of floppy, and not able to stand very well. It’s tough…wait, that’s a
figurative backbone?
Yeah...better order up one of those, too.
Okay, kids. Pay attention…class is now in session. Today’s lesson: Hatred and Bigotry.
Hate is out there. It exists, and while we need to work to correct that, the first thing we need to agree on is us. Who are we, really?
See, part of the issue is other people’s fear of the unknown, fear of that which is different. If y'all haven't noticed...we are different! That fear can only be changed and erased by educating people, if need be one at a time. Another part of the issue is all the petty bickering, squabbling and internal politicking that we in the TG community have amongst ourselves…
never mind with the L/Bi/G crowd! If
we can’t agree and come together in like mind amongst ourselves, why do we dare to think others will treat us any differently?
With that thought in mind, and in that light…
Wendy—Good enough. Keep it up, dear. We are not all “soldiers”, and thus have to do what we can when and where we can. We cannot do it all at once. So why knock yourself out trying?
Rachael—join the club. I still have physical scars from where I got the crap beat out of me by classmates. I have chosen to live in the now, as I am, rather than going back and using that period of my life as an excuse. I have also forgiven many of them…it’s a good (and needful) place to start.
High marks for you, though, for speaking your mind. Keep it up, girlfriend!
Porscha—re-read what I said to Rachael. Now…I dislike being a coward as well. But there are times when a prudent retreat (whatever that may look like at that time) may be the more intelligent course of action. If that means I “wimp out”, but live to write another article, I’ll take my chances. We all have to remember that we are all too human and frail. I’d rather be a live coward than a dead martyr—I can do more good in the long term by living my life smartly than possibly die from making a bad choice. Like trying to convince a person showing real hatred (as opposed to simply an ignorant person) toward me the error of their ways.
However…**tone softens here** That you came out in an office and discovered it wasn’t liberating is very telling about comfort levels and prejudice…coming out isn’t always all we hope it will be, nor does it always work out like we hope it will. I hope others of us learn from that experience…myself included. Something about a time and place…bless you for making the attempt, hon!
Maryanne—You have the right idea, sugah. Blessings to you! I wish I could be like you at times, except for that whole Goth thing. (It’s just not me, dear.)
To us all—idiots are everywhere. (Especially when I’m driving—they’re all in front of or behind me, depending on their speed and how late I am.) Hatred and bigotry, sadly, is also everywhere…we need to stand up for ourselves and our civil rights, but at the same time, let’s not be stupid about it! There are times and places when it is necessary…and times when the prudent thing is to keep your lipsticked lips together. That’s not weakness from where I sit…it’s intelligent!
It comes back to what I’ve said for years…THINK!!! USE the grey matter between the ol’ frontal lobes.
We all need to lighten up as well. We all have our dark, pensive, brooding side. Geez…what we all need is a party or something, to shake it all off.
This is the second rant I’ve had today…
must be hormonal. I’ll get off my soapbox now, and go put on my flameproof bra and panties. I’ve a hunch I’m gonna need them.
Luv ‘n hugs anyway,
Mina Sakura