Hi Keef
we have never conversed in chat or messaged etc but from what I can tell from what I have seen of your replys in forums on many subjects in my eyes makes you a decent HUMAN BEING.
I know the thred has deviated from your original objective.
I personally dislike the term Trannie Admirer or TG Admirer etc.......... I admire great works of Art, Great human endeavours, great acts by great people so in my world the term is a real misnomer.
I have more than 10 years of experience of meeting guys,chatting with ,mailing etc for many Guys their motives were mostly sexual. But I have also had some lovely times being taken out for meals at reastaurants, Pubs etc in Daylight and at night. Every time I was treated as a Lady by real gents we enjoyed great conversation ,laughs and nothing sexual was expected from me by them.
My view is a people based one. There are lovely people, Mixed up people,confused people,courious people,one tracked mind people.Nasty people so I dont class a guy who shows interest in getting to know me as an "Admirer" I see him as some one who wishes to get to know me better another person another human being.
If you are net savy that is been around for a while online chatted to many people male female Tg or whatever Label you need to use.....you develop a nose for the type of person who is at the other end of the superhighway.I can usually tell within a few minutes or a few seperate chats what is driving the person at the other end of that chat window their motive for chatting with me.
I have had many no Shows and the answer for their no shows is usually the fantasy is easier to deal with than going through with the act (whether just a social meet or something more is expected).
Guys Like Keef are a very rare thing. So you girls should fully appreciate an open honest guy when you come across one. Judgeing one guy by your experiences of another is like someone judgeing me as a TS from a previous experience of another TS who is probably as different from me as cheese is to chalk.
I have a good male friend who is married articulate and intelligent who likes to meet with me from time to time purely because he finds my company and conversation stimulating as I find him interllectually stimulating and emotionally mature no sex nothing physical just two freinds showing love and respect to one another with no judgements made.
So for my 2 pence worth my experince tells me that 95 % of guys who are under the label of TA are usually after sex in one form or another and may be either a HPW or TV seeking a way to allow themselves to dress. The other 4% are usually diamonds and you know how a girl loves Diamonds...he he
and that missing 1% probably the sort of guys everyone no matter what their gender or sexual status would most definatly avoid at all costs ( please dont ask me how you can tell this sort) if we knew how to spot such types everyone would be a lot safer.
** these are veiws expressed from personal experience and no data has been collected analysed or collated to prove or disprove these numbers in any scientific manor.
So Keef thanks for a good posting.
Sarah
flowering into the woman I always was.