Hi Victoria, I have a suggestion. Try going to some tranny nite clubs. You're from Oxford, UK so are not so far away from Pink Punters near Milton Keynes and The mummy of them all, The Wayout Club in London.
If you look around the room, you will usually see quite a few RG's (or GG's) and they will often be the only ones who are wearing trousers.
And if they have bothered to pay the entrance fee to get into a club like that, you can bet it's not a mistake - they are there to pick up a t-girl.
If you start a relationship with someone you've met in a tranny club, then you will never have to face the agony of coming out, years down the line, as many do.
Go for it!
Hugs,
Katie x
PS That's a tip from my forthcoming book - available soon!
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