February 16, 2009 2:02 PM GMT
Meredith there are girls that definately do this, I have never actually trolled the streets, but on a few occasions, pulled guys in clubs, Mad I know, I was going through my ''I'm a girl period'' , seeking attention and acceptance. I did'nt exactly go out looking like a slut tho, Just dressing as girls of my age did at the time. But before going off somwhere always made it clear what I was. It ended with me nearly getting a kicking and robbed.
But I do know one girl that did get her face slashed and badly beaten, through trolling the streets.
Perhaps I don't measure up to Marhsa's standards, we all do stupid things, seeking recognition for what we feel inside. The point is did I let the TS community down, or did everyone else just think I was just another RG slut???????????? Promoting common sense is one thing, but don't condem someone out of hand, We each have to realise everyone is different and have needs and emotional issues to come to terms with, dealing with it in our own way at the time. I certainly can't condem anyone, some of the things I have done. Some of you will have heard rumours and the whispering. Some of its true, some is not.
February 16, 2009 3:28 PM GMT
I must admit, I'm with Mere on this one in that it just sounds fake and is likely to be someone just acting out their fantasies.
In reality, as Christine has pointed out, a guy finding out you aren't what he thought you were, can lead to you ending up in A & E, or worse. I wouldn't condemn anyone out of hand for behaving a certain way but...................they do need to realise what a risk they are taking.
Nikki
February 16, 2009 5:07 PM GMT
LOl, oh what dear freinds, I take all your points, weather Holly is a fantatist or not, soliciting lurid stories or not. The point I was purely trying to make, is it does go on,>> IF << Holly is doing it for real, then it is insane behaviour, Apart from erm social diseases, there is a definate danger from, gay bashers, weirdos and the rest of the unwashed knuckle dragging troglodytes.
I don't take things personally, got to the point I just don't give a dam, but would rather be wrong giving somone honest and sensible advice on the chance they might be genuine, rather than being automatically suspicous. Perhaps I'm just gullible.
xxX Cristine Xxx
February 16, 2009 5:12 PM GMT
I don't think you're being gullible Christine, I also try to take people at face value and I prefer to accept they are who they say they are, until they prove otherwise. My reasoning is that I want to be accepted for being who I am, so all I am doing is extending the same courtesy to others. I'm sure that also comes across as being a bit naive at times but there you are.
Nikki
February 17, 2009 11:42 AM GMT
Mmmmmm Holly, point taken, such a hot body, that likes to flaunt it on the street, Now I am getting a trifle suspicious, But you don't grace us with a piccie in your ptofile for us all to go wow. and honk our horns at.