April 11, 2009 11:16 PM BST
I think some of us may be mistaking the edifice for what goes on in it. Katie may build us the Taj-Mahal of tgirl websites but it won't mean much if no one uses it. If I take Tiina's post correctly, she's not commenting on how TW as such is set up, but why there isn't more going on. Please correct me if I'm wrong, Tiina. My own feeling is that what the site needs is not so much a remodel or a makeover as more participation by everyone whether you're a member or not.
Yes, I have to admit I haven't been as active lately as I might like to be, I have a whole host of excuses, looking for work, having moved, still trying to sell our old house, etc, etc. That still doesn't mean I can't take a few minutes to comment on a post or start a new thread about something of interest. And I have also hung back on some comments I might like to make out of concern that it could potentially cause someone to be upset. No, I'm not advocating responses merely for the sake of causing contention, lord knows we have had plenty of that in the past, but if something you read makes you want to speak up, then by all means, please do so. I know I'm going to from now on.
And if you can do it at all, please join and become a paying member. To use one of the spiels that public radio uses during their fundraising drives, if you cut out one cup of espresso from the local coffee stand each day, you could easily afford to join TW and make a monthly dues payment. Yes, I know we are all strapped with the economy everywhere in the toilet. So if you can't afford to make a regular payment then just contribute what you can as you can. TW cannot exist without us. For you girls...and guys...who absolutely just cannot afford anything, you are still a part of TW and are valued and needed, please participate and make your voices and opinions heard.
As always, Katie, thank you for all you do each and every day that most of are totally unaware of and that keeps TW here for us.
Hugs...Joni Marie