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Ladies...
**sighs**
There's two sides to this. The first is that this is so wrong on so many levels. How can anyone tell a woman what size her boobs should be? It's wrong, it's offensive, and it should be struck from civilized discourse. (I would also say it's typically French, but do not wish to insult my French sisters.)
The other side: deep down inside each one of us is the realization that we want our boobs to be looked over by men. It's a rush, and at the subconscious level, if we want to be viewed as women this is one of the things we need to look at. Boobs do not make you a woman...but in the eyes of men, a nice rack will go a long way. Look at people like Marilyn Monroe, Pam Anderson, and some of the supermodels. Nice legs, nice rack, nice hair. Men don't care if they can act or not; get them on screen and jiggle a little and they're all prepubescent again. (That includes the sweaty hand thing...ick.
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And genetic women spend millions each year trying to achieve that look.
Don't believe me? Look at a woman's magazine! Better yet: think back to the "it" girl of your early youth. There are two that stand out in mine: Farrah Fawcett and Lynda Carter. How many of your genetic girl friends wanted to look like/be those women? And how many boys had wet dreams of them? Even better: how many men fantasized about doing it with them? (Don't tell me; I don't wanna know in either case.) I'll admit I wanted to be like them, and any number of others I
won't admit to; I do have some pride.
Face it, ladies--for we are all women here, in various stages--if we want to be women, we want to look like and be treated like one. Having a set of boobs, while not the all in all, does make looking like a woman that much easier.
Why else do we have discussions of things like bras and breast enhancement in here if we didn't think that was the case?
So, yes. I'm insulted too. Very much so.
Nobody can or should tell me how big my boobs should be.
That is none of their business.
But let us not have any patronizing comments on this matter; look inside yourself and ask, if the opportunity presented itself, if you wouldn't want--or better yet,
have--a permanent rack of your own--and have some man looking at or playing with them.
Luv 'n hugs,
Mina
Living as the woman I am!