June 30, 2006 6:20 AM BST
The more research, The better, I say.
Like most here, I've known I've been "different" since I was 3, but, like most here, I suppressed it to keep parents, friends, society from reacting negatively.
No more!
I believe strongly that we were born this way, but conditioning can influence us to be anywhere from a straight non-CD (with a few fantasies unfulfilled...
) to a full post-op TS.
Some folks can manage the dichotomy of what they Want to be versus what they Are fairly well. Others have a bigger need for congruency and to feel "whole", "normal", or however each person defines their state. (That would be me, by the way...)
And environment has a lot to do with it. Let's face it: if
the world changed tomorrow, and there wasn't enough food for us all to eat, would you be worried about wearing panties and nylons under your work trousers, or would you be out there foraging for a meal, with little thought of much else as the hunger pains become more intense?
Environment can change/direct/blunt even the best thoughts and intentions.
Back to the study: My previous counselor stated that there is a difference between the brain M.R.I.'s of women and men. SHe also stated that TS's usually fit the female type, but not exclusively. When she was done stating that she looked at me like she was expecting me to go: "Really? All right! Let's go have one done so I can find out what I am?" She almost seemed disappointed that I gave my usual statement: I know who I am and what I am. That's all the validation I need. (Popeye theory: I am what I am...)
I don't see her anymore, for various reasons, but I always wonder: what was she really getting at or hoping to see by telling me that? I guess I'll never know. Nor, really, does it matter, in the long run.
I know where I am in the transition process, and where I want to end up. I just hope to travel the road with as few accidents and injuries as possible....
Hugs to all!!!
Kari
July 1, 2006 11:31 PM BST
There actually is a cartoon in Glamour Boutique 3, in a frame on a glass case:
Olive Oyl is in the door with a shocked expression. Popeye is in front of a full length mirror in a dress saying : "I yam what I yam, Olive Oyl"