Interesting Wendy, I don't have regular face to face contact with any girls here so the chances of outing them are pretty slim. However, I have unwittingly signed the wrong name on emails and sent them. No one has come back to me and questioned that oddly enough but then, it's pretty obvious I'm out myself. At work,, it's an unspoken 'known', lol.
I can emphasise with the guy in the article though, I don't really see that he did anything wrong, and certainly what he said was without malice, there was never any intention to out the girl.
Would it bother me? No, but maybe I'm just thick skinned. If, for example, I finally underwent SRS, I would not be hiding my past life away pretending it didn't happen. It's part of me after all.
Nikki
Every woman is beautiful, some show it with their faces, others show it with their hearts.