October 14, 2009 11:37 AM BST
As far as I understand the terms TS & TG, TS means a person changing their physical appearance outwardly, living as the opposite gender, whereas TG is somone who mentaly associates with the opposite gender. Some TG's never change their physical appearance, some learn to live with it, or recieve gender councelling to either change gender or stay in their born gender. I concur with Lucy, Most of us are TG & TS if we proceed down the path of Gender reasignment, One is hardly going to go all the way if one is not TG, ie. gender dysphoric. A lot of people assimulate the term TS with Asian lady boys, Who perhaps for comercial reasons retain their manhood down below, but live their lives as women outwardly.
As far as the NHS goes, yes compared with most countries, we are lucky in the UK, but there has to be a limit to freebies, The money bucket is not bottomless, There are those of us that have paid all the way, for numerous reasons, To expidite matters, to a matter of concience, ''I can afford it, so pay, to free up the NHS service for those that can't afford it'' Which on numerous occasions, I have and expect others have been accused of que jumping, What! does that mean, if people who can afford it did'nt pay, there would be less funds for those less fortunate, who are in desperate need and would lengthen waiting times and ques would be longer.
The question of breast augumentation is a tricky matter, but is probably based on the same guidlines as genetic girls, a case of need based on assesment of a persons mental disposition, this could be assesed after SRS.. As far as testicle transplants go for cosmetic reasons I personally have never heard of it, thought guys just shoved a pair of rolled up socks down their trunks, to go swimming.
But once again, a thread decending into nit picking and point scoring, a us and them attitude, Where the protagonist probably mean exactly the same thing.
But to compare what men get and TS/TG get is a load of balls if you pardon the pun
In conclusion, perhaps more consideration should be given to breast augumentation AFTER SRS. for the TS/TG but I do note, Rose xxXXxx that sometimes in your posts you refer to yourself as TG and in others as TS,
xxXCristineXxx
October 14, 2009 11:53 AM BST
Rose, I'm happy to reply to stimulate discussion upon the site, but I'll allow you to determine whether it's useful or not!
At present, I suspect that I will not fully transition and my progress is very, very slow. But it's the only position from which I can make a comments.. Of course, views can change with circumstances..
In the UK, we remain fortunate that we have a publically funded NHS, but it is a provision that is perpetually under financial pressure. I understand that following assessment treatment is provided to align your body with your gender and patients are scrutinised at length to gauge whether this expenditure is appropriate - for them and the public purse. Individuals who need their physical appearance to align with their gender must surely illustrate a cognitive understanding of their desired gender, not a desire to achieve an exaggerated representation of it. So is there a need to determine an appropriate size of breasts for a person of a certain height and stature (average breasts for the the average woman - sounds like a call to arms!) at the beginning of the treatment, and agree that funding will be provided to achieve those targets?
Yes, I'd like a pair of targets as well, but I suspect that unless everything else was also in place their physical proportions alone wouldn't make me a woman. Also, I'm not sure how I would I feel if I sought supplementary attention diverting restricted funds to enhance my breasts, whilst a neighbour died because a kidney transplant could not be funded.
However. Views can change with circumstances..
Rachel
October 14, 2009 12:50 PM BST
Personally, no, I don't think TS's should be granted boob jobs out of hand, why should they? So the hormones didn't do quite as good a job on the breasts as one may have liked, well, sorry but that happens to GG's too, deal with it. Besides, for 90% of the time, it can all be faked and improved upon with a decent gel filled bras etc, and that includes swimming too. Unless you are naked, I really can't see what the problem is.
Replacement testicles? I've never heard of that one! My stepfather had his removed due to cancer and it didn't bother him a bit, it's not like anyone notices unless you are completely naked after all.
Nikki
October 14, 2009 11:11 PM BST
really don't think you have presented a fair representation of this case Rose. Full article at:
http://www.dailymail.co.u[...]ds.html
If you read the article the lady in question has lived for 10 years as a woman but "has not had a sex change operation" but requires breast enlargement to make her more feminine? I would have thought srs was the first hurdle to cross to be more female.
What is worse is her case is being fought by the Equality and Human rights Commission, a body that gets £70 million a year from taxpayers to fight stupid cases like this against another public body, ie, NHS, the only winners will be the lawyers. Hopefully the EHRC will be the first quango to get the chop (no pun intended) after the next election.
And lets not forget the NHS is free at the point of NEED.....not want!!][
October 15, 2009 3:27 PM BST
Well, having read the article my views are unchanged. I still don't believe she should be granted the operation and I defend the hospital/trust for saying defending this case costs money which could have been better spent.
Excuse me for pointing out another obvious point as well, why doesn't she pay privately? They're not that much if you want it that badly, or is she just after a freebie?
Nikki
October 15, 2009 5:41 PM BST
I've been reading this debating the pros & cons. But it seems that some small detail had been left out. The fact that this person hasn't evan had srs yet. There's no side to take. This shouldn.t evan be considerd untill after, at least a couple of years after.
At this point she may not evan want to keep them later on. Tell her to get a job & save some money.
October 15, 2009 6:26 PM BST
Applause for Karen.
October 15, 2009 7:27 PM BST
This case has many flaws as far as I see it.
One aspect that I dislike about such tactics being used by such types is the expectation to have it served to them on a plate. This can back fire in so much as seeking acceptance from the general Public and having understanding for women with a trans past. Can in fact cause a certain amount of antagonism from the Public and may make some who may have been on the fence unsympathetic towards women like me because they see us as requireing unnecessary operations when such funding and resources could be used for those with life threatening ailments. This is after all the perception many of us have fought against in seeking acceptance and understanding from out side the transsexual circles.
Also as has been pointed out why is she demanding a BA when she hasnt even had any form of GCS/SRS ? Surely if one considers self as a woman the one aspect that is most distaful to one is having the incorrect genitalia for the gender one feels they are ? Now I know for some GCS/SRS is not an option on medical grounds but generally it is desired by the majority of M2F Transwomen though the uptake is much lower for a F2M transmen because it is a less successful operation with lower success rates comapred to a M2F. That said once one has had GCS/SRS there is a raised probability/possibility of an increase in breast growth some time even up to 5-6 years after the removal of the testicals. Baring this in mind surely it would be better for no M2F to even be considered for BA by the NHS till such criteria has been met.
Personally (knowing a very large number of M2F women of all ages and stages) I find the desire for having breasts of a certain size and relating that to feeling female is not a general view shared by most M2F women usually after having GCS/SRS they are much happier within themselves the breast development is mostly lower down on the requirements list and certainly does not a woman make.
If there was only two proceedures offered to M2F women by the NHS I would be willing to bet the two most common and popular choices would be.
1: GCS/SRS..BTW GCS = new term being used by the medicos.Gender Confirmation Surgery.
2: Facial hair removal whether Laser/ IPL or electro.
just those two proceedures alone will greatly enhance and provide the woman with more confidence and a feeling of well being.
Any one desiring a BA should just go PVT like many natal women have to. for around £2K-£3K a decent pair of breasts can be achieved. I know this is my own personal view and take but I also know it one shared by the majority of transwomen I know (though not all) but then most of the ones I know are self reliant and confident and certainly not all are stunners and some are not even 80% convincving in looks but most certainly are in demeaner and confidence that is worth far more than virtually any surgery.
October 16, 2009 12:54 PM BST
I'm relieved to see that I didn't get flamed for not defending this woman.
Following up on Sarah's two points of what people might prefer to see available on the NHS, obviously SRS is there, but I think the second one, and for me the first priority would be FFS. The reason being that I can hide what's in my knickers until such time that it is removed, but I can't hide my face and that is paramount to help integrating and being accepted as a woman.
Regarding hair removal, in Holland you can actually claim most of the costs back from your medical insurance so it will cost you a lot less and is therefore more available. I know that as I have my/electrolysis undertaken in Holland, shame I don't live there and then it would be costing me a lot less!
Nikki
October 16, 2009 1:08 PM BST
As far as I'm concerned, BA , no matter what thereason behind it may be, should be privately financed unless the relevent health system/insurance has a policy of generally funding it for ALL women, irrespective of their origins................As MtF we regard ourselves as women and as such ought to try and accept what the tablets/gels/patches give us and not try and claim a special status. Trying to claim such a status is NOT going to endear us to those natal women we are (deperately?) trying to integrate with, especially if some of them are, at the same time, desperately trying to raise the money for a boob job themselves. A visit to the following link ought to put matters in some sort of perspective.........some of us think we're hard done by?
http://www.007b.com/breas[...]y_1.php
Now if these women can come to terms with that which the hormone bath of puberty has given them, why can't we accept what HRT has given us? To be provocative for a moment, if an MtF can only regard themselves as a woman if they've got DD's as against A's then I can't help feeling that we're dealing with breast fetishism here.......................either that or they've let themselves be fooled by airbrushed and photoshopped centrefolds and porn models........ Reality can be a harsh mistress.......
Testicle replacement surgery.......fine,since it's almost certainly the consequence of an accident or illness. By the same yardstick, as far a I am aware, breast reconstruction following a mastectomy due to breast cancer would be funded by the relevent health system/insurance...but this is a different ball game,isn't it?
ciao
Lynn Harvey
October 16, 2009 1:30 PM BST
I have to completely agree with Lynn and that was the point I was trying to make earlier. Rose brought up the psychological aspect of all this as being justification that the BA should be covered. As Lynn points out, a MTF wanting to appear as one of those magazine airbrushed models is not living in reality. I think each of us could come up with a whole list of things that would make us psychologically feel better about ourselves. Let us not forget, women come in all shapes and sizes.
On another note in this topic, Maryanne brought out some good information and so did others in regards to how this story can cause a backlash on the TG community. This story has already made the U.S. media and the comments call this entire fiasco a joke based on this gal not even having surgery yet wants someone else to pay for her boobs. I think the whole story gives the impression as Lynn said, this person has a breast fetish or something out of a fantasy. Here in the U.S. we are debating the healthcare issue right now and stories like this are causing people to wonder why stuff like trannies getting boobs is paid for and life saving surgeries are not.
Hugs,
Marsha
October 19, 2009 12:43 PM BST
Thankyou for your answer Sue, it was nice to get a perspective from someone who has been though the system as it were. Also interesting was the fact that most women here believed that they should be treated exactly the same as biological women, not asking for preferential treatment in any way. How wonderful given the deck is stacked against us to begin with.
Nikki