Hi Suzzii-
Welcome, hon, and Happy New Year to you. You have certainly come to the right place to make friends and find help, resources, and information. Most especially, you won't be hit on here, TGS is not a dating site and rude, crude, lewd and otherwise impolite behavior is strictly not tolerated.
Other than that, anything goes. Please feel free to speak your mind on any of the forums or chats, though you may find some contradiction and argumentation. There are a lot of very strong minded and opinionated girls here who aren't afraid to say what they think. But you will also find help and support and understanding and a shoulder to cry on if you need it. We all know what it's like, and though, perhaps, our destinations may be different, we are all on the same journey.
If you should need some help with the site, feel free to ask me or any of the other mods and we will do all we can to help out. May the Goddess bless you and hold you close in the coming year.
Hugs...Joni Mari
"Be yourself, everyone else is already taken."
-Oscar Wilde