http://www.identitygender.com/2011/02/09/the-hopeful-road-by-shellie-ruge.html

 

 

When Randi initially disclosed to me five years ago that she wastransgendered, I couldn't find anyone who could give me HOPE  that my marriage could survive. I didn't even know yet if I wanted my relationship to survive, but I wanted the option, if that makes sense.  The general consensus from everyone, including professionals, was that we would not make it.  I think that was just as traumatic as the idea of transition at the time.  I was in crisis, and I couldn't really tell up from down yet, but I just needed someone to tell me that staying married to Randi was an OPTION, that marriage and transition was POSSIBLE.........................more on the link,.........plus books at:-

 

http://www.amazon.com/dp/1580051936?tag=gendidenmaga-20&camp=14573&creative=327641&linkCode=as1&creativeASIN=1580051936&adid=0XJQQYX99GYJAYVJCB7N&

This post was edited by Cristine Jennifer Shye. BL at September 22, 2011 6:19 PM BST