Coming Out - various web sites worth reading:-

Coming out for transgender people: http://www.nhs.uk/Livewell/Transhealth/Pages/Transcomingout.aspx
Coming Out as Transgender: http://www.ohio.edu/lgbt/resources/transcomingout.cfm
A Transgender Life - Coming Out To Family Episode - Part 1:  Video: http://youtu.be/ju11sGKUSYs
Links from a Yahoo Group: http://dir.yahoo.com/society_and_culture/cultures_and_groups/lesbian__gay__bisexual__and_transgendered/transgendered/Coming_Out/
Coming Out Trans to your Parents and Family: http://www.pflag.org/fileadmin/user_upload/TNET/Coming_Out_Trans.pdf
Transgender Mental Health: http://tgmentalhealth.com/2009/12/26/thoughts-on-coming-out-as-transgender-to-family/
Tips on Coming Out Trans: http://sequoiablessed.hubpages.com/hub/Tips-on-Coming-Out-Trans

Still going though some of the links. Being full stealth and in my current situation, this is great stuff to absorb.

Great list Carol - Faye seems to have listed quite a few I was already aware of ... well, the more the merrier! One I found useful and quite fun is http://www.lauras-playground.com/ this is not a recommendation, as my loyalty is to the TG cause not any single website or group as such, however being better informed is always a huge advantage in life

I got my help from this site:
http://www.paul-clinton.net/
one of the most important factors is to have enough self love and self worth before coming out or you may end up feeling depressed.

Very helpful