August 2, 2004 9:46 PM BST
Here ya go Gloria. This is Monica Helms account of the meeting between Transgendered delegates and officials with the Kerry Campaign. I'll let Monica's summation stand on it's own. I would have nothing to add to her analyses of the meeting. I can't wait to hear from the Transgendered delegates at the Republican Convention.
Date: Mon, 2 Aug 2004 12:56
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>Report from Georgia Stonewall Democrat Monica Helms
first transgendered delegate from the South to a Democratic National Convention representing JOHN KERRY
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>Editor's Note: Monica begins by referring to a proposed amendment to the DNC platform that would have added trans-inclusive language. As it is, the platform only mentions gay, lesbian and bisexual people.
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As you know, we withdrew the amendment to the DNC platform to get a meeting with top officials in the Kerry campaign. That meeting took place on Thursday afternoon, and we had the ear of some top people, people who will be working in the West Wing if Kerry gets elected. We presented some of our issues to them, chief amongst them was more direct access to the White House and Congress without being filtered through gay and lesbian organizations.
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>Because of my position with TAVA (Transgender American Veterans Association), I was the one to briefly discuss the problems that transsexual veterans are experiencing with the VA. Out of all the things we talked about, that one seemed to be something they wish to hear more about. The woman there in the Kerry campaign wants to sit down with me and get more details on the problems we face with the VA. It was the one item that seemed to spark their interest the most. I'll keep you all informed on what comes out of the future discussion.
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The delegates did a lot of educating at the convention, and got the chance to speak with some individuals. These are the people I spoke to:
Carol King, Howard Dean, Al Sharpton, Janet Reno, John Glen, Jerry Springer, Jimmy Carter, Max Cleland, Tammy Baldwin (MN), Barney Frank (MA), John Lewis (GA), Sanford Bishop (GA). Other TG delegates spoke with some of these and others. When Ben Aflec spoke at the GLBT Caucus meeting on Wednesday, he used the word "transgender" seperately from "gay and lesbian."
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Babs Casbar had 200 buttons made up that said, in beautiful font and colors, "2004 Democratic National Convention Transgender Delegate." It had an American Flag and the transgender triangle as well. They were the hottest button at the convention. People were willing to trade three or more buttons for them. I came home with 5 extra. I know that people like Jerry Springer got one, as did Ben Aflec, Tammy Baldwin and Howard Dean got two. I also gave out a lot of TAVA cards.
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This was an experience of a lifetime. I was treated with respect wherever I went, and when introduced at GLBT events, we would get long applaused. At the first GLBT caucus meeting on Monday, three non-trans people got up and asked why transgender people were not included in the platform or with other issues. It was nice to see that strong acceptance.
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On Wednesday, the transgender delegates presented Scott Safier an award for all that he did for us in the platform committee. (Editor's Note: Gay delegate Safier made a speech about trans inclusion in the platform.) It is called the "Jane Fee Award," named after the first openly transgender delegate at the 2000 DNC. It will be a rare award, only given out every 4 years to one person. Scott deserved it.
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>Did we come away with solid gains for transgender people? Not really. Did we open the doors of access? A little. Did we educate? Indeed we did. Will it be better in 2008? Absolutely. And, it will take many of you to work toward becoming delegates in 2008 to really make that impact happen.
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>Monica
August 2, 2004 10:19 PM BST
Hi Mina:
I absolutely agree with you on just about everything. I've said it before and I'll say it again. I'm mostly concerned about having someone in power that gives us chance to get what every other American has as well bringing this country out of the depths it has fallen into with regard to a number of categories.
Monica's account of the meeting is interesting in that they seemed extremely interested when it came to Transgendered veterans. If this is what it takes to help boost rights for everyone then so be it.
The Democrats may not be moving as quickly on some things we want but at least they seem to be inclined to listen and at least not work against us. This is a start.
Hugs,
Betty
August 2, 2004 11:05 PM BST
Betty--
We agree?
My heart! My heart! I can't
stand the shock!
All kidding aside--thanks. It's a shame we can't get a TS elected....
Mina
August 3, 2004 12:09 AM BST
Mina:
Just give me some time.
Hugs,
Betty
September 6, 2004 6:16 PM BST
I have to agree that neither party is especially eager to grant us our basic rights.
However, there is a huge difference. The Republicans are openly hostile to the entire GLBT community. As long as the Brimstone Brigade controls that party, it will not be a place for us. The Democrats, on the other hand, are mixed. The door is open to us, but many Democrats are reluctant to count us among their numbers because they are afraid that we may scare some other people away. Given a choice between the two, the Democrats are clearly the better choice.
At the Salt Lake County and Utah State Democratic conventions, I was one of two openly transgendered delegates. This is very good for such a conservative state. I felt like I was treated with respect, and while some of the candidates and party officials do not share all aspects of my agenda, at least I was welcome there and was part of the debate. I strongly doubt that the Mormon-dominated Utah Republicans would have welcomed me.
There are two methods by which fringe groups and "undesirable" minorities work to improve their status. One is to work outside of the political system, forming their own groups, demonstrating, or sometimes withdrawing from general society and making their own way. The second is to work within the political system, gradually infiltrating one or both of the political parties, and ultimately gaining a voice from within. Both methods are desirable and necessary at various points of a civil rights struggle, but I have chosen the second method; it fits my personality and my way of doing things better. Of course, the second method requires a choice of a lesser of two evils, but some good can result from it. I am encouraged that we have some transgendered people, both in Utah and nationwide, working to gradually gain a foothold in the Democratic Party. Maybe one day, if the religious crazies can be sent away from the leadership of the Republican Party, there will be a place for us there too.
Heather H.
October 17, 2004 8:23 PM BST
Look a little harder!
Hugs,
Betty
October 19, 2004 7:07 PM BST
Hi Wendy:
That is an interesting way to see POW's but I wouldn't be too hard on John McCain. He was an injured/downed pilot and was probably surrounded by quite a few North Vietnamese soldiers. There was little future in putting up a fight.
GW Bush basically deserted the National Guard. First he didn't show up for training. Second, he refused to take his required physical exam. Rumor has it he didn't want to take the drug test. Third he says he received an "early out" to attend Harvard Business School. I was in the national Guard and I can tell you unequivocally that there IS NO EARLY OUT for the National Guard unless you're killed or severely injured. As I see it Bush played the "spoiled rich kid" while his daddy covered for him.
Kerry on the other hand charged enemy fire, saved a fellow soldiers life and was a decorated war hero. All this in spite of a few lying rich right wing texans (who weren't even there) who say otherwise. I read an article where it was either Ted Koppel or 60 Minutes actually went to Vietnam to get the Vietnamese take on what happened that day. They actually remembered the incident because it was such a ferocious battle as they described it. In virtually every detail what they remember backed what Kerry and the men on his boat said and not what the lying texans were claiming. The Vietnamese didn't even know Kerry was running for president and had no political interests at all.
Now I know who I want to defend this country and it isn't the deserting weasel who has been pretending to be president for the last 4 disasterous years. Personally, I want a real man and a war hero defending me (oh my!).
Hugs,
Betty
August 2, 2004 6:28 AM BST
As I've stated before, I agree that we're (USA & the West, in general) safer, both short-term and long-term with Bush in office (instead of Gore or Kerry), so I won't go into that in detail again here. Still, we have a long way to go in the war against terrorism, and we still have safety issues here at home, and I think that is the main issue in this election.
Regarding GLBT issues, I haven't really seen much actual support from either major party, but I have seen GLBT groups and individuals get USED by those two parties, one way or another. I don't think the Democrats care that much about civil rights, they just want to consolidate power wherever they can, by pandering to whichever group is speaking the loudest at the moment. If they really cared about our rights, we wouldn't have all of those unconstitutional anti-gun laws on the books.
As for Republicans, many of them are socially conservative, so they're not doing much to ensure equal rights for anyone who's GLBT. Many of them are stuck on the concept of marriage being a religious matter (and therefore, a hetero union only), but the fact is that it's a legally binding contract regulated by the state, and we can't just pick and choose which rights we'll recognize and defend based on our personal preferences. All of our rights must be applied equally, or none of them mean anything.
Regarding the comparison between McCain & Bush and who's a real Republican, could we make the same argument about Lieberman being a real Democrat instead of Kerry?
As for being a TG delegate, I might try to be one in the Libertarian Party, someday. Not being full-time, It's just a bit scary to do something like that.
October 17, 2004 10:05 PM BST
As an outsider, who won't be called upon to vote (and who has also consumed an awful lot of good French wine this evening, my money is on Kerry.
Why? Two factors so far. Firstly, having seen the two of them in their televised debate, I thought that Kerry most definitely came out on top (even though the press still said they were neck and neck).
Secondly, Kerry is in the fortunate position of talking up stem cell research just a few days before Christopher Reeve died.
Bush was dead against it.
That looks like another feather in the Kerry cap to me.
There's still time for things to change though and this one could (like the last one) go right to the line.
Hope my old neighbors in Florida are ready!
Hugs,
Katie x
October 18, 2004 1:26 AM BST
Elizabeth,
In order to become a POW you usually have to surrender (unless disabled enough to not be able to fight) I'm not sure that is who I want as commander in chief of the US armed forces. Unless John McCain falls into that category, I would not want him as President. I want someone who will fight, when necessary, and I want the other side to know that about my president. I want someone who won't flinch when staring down the barrel of a gun. Naturally, I also want a President who does not waste US and foreign lives in an unnecessary conflict.