Given your age and situation,everything seems perfectly normal.I have spoken to many tv's ad ts's,and there do appear to be the two stages of transition,despite some denial by the so-called experts.The first stage go around their teens,and usually become normal heterosexual women.The second stage try denial,marriage,career and so on,but around the age of 40,realise that they are what they are,and move on.However,all those years of conditioning put up some very hard barriers against what seems to be a homosexual relationship,and tend to become lesbian or just asexual.
For reference,I'm 47,been on hormonees for 2 1/2yrs,and just got my final clearance for 'the op'.
Sex is now more feminine in character-not so often,but it's worth the wait! Choose him carefully,and you may enjoy it-nothing ventured,nothing gained.If it doesnt work out,you still have the other option...
Good hunting,Sue.
Sue. X
Psychiatrists are like the eunuch in the harem. They know what transvestism is, they can describe it, they can demonstrate it, but they cant actually explain it!