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  • Hi everyone,

    I am a straight guy, always have been, I get loads of straight sex and that's all fine. I have always had an attraction to trans though, and now its got to the point where I get extremely turned on just thinking about things. I am looking for a TG/TV/TS to maybe explore certain things with.. I am from Birmingham, UK, and I have only ever tried pulling females, I wouldn't feel comfortable going to a gay club as one of my friends suggested, just because its only the trans that I would be after. Whenever I do a search online all it comes up with are TV escorts. I have never used an escort and don't really fancy the idea of it to be honest. So my question is, how exactly do I discreetly find a tran who would be interested?

    Kind Regards,

    Adam x

      January 11, 2014 4:41 PM GMT
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  • Try TVChix sweetie, it's more of a dating site.
      January 11, 2014 6:30 PM GMT
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  • Maggie's probably right with that, but if you decide to stay here, the girls here aren't "looking" for sex, so be polite, be sweet, be respectful, and treat us like you would any of the genetic women you date.......................unless you want to feel like a hunk of tuna that just got tossed in the shark tank.  No one here likes a troll, so if you stay, be a gentleman.

    Briana Lynn
      January 12, 2014 2:38 AM GMT
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  • ''I am a straight guy, always have been,''     Are you now on the turn?  ''and now its got to the point where I get extremely turned on just thinking about things''.    Question of straigh whatever depends on how you view/imagine sex with a transexual?    How do you imagine  sex with say a pre-op,    How would you sexually satisfy one.     I could probably accept your whish to experiment, but lets not get carried away with the staight and heterosexual bit.

     

    I have had a few encounters with ''straight'' per se males, who just delude themselves that they don't have gay leanings, and this is just self induced denial.

     

    Cynically Cristine Shye.

    Cristine Jennifer Shye.  B/L.  B/Acc
      January 13, 2014 1:40 PM GMT
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  • Why do so many guys who are 'straight' want to try something with a TV/TS? The only difference between us and a GG is what's between our legs and if that's the interest then are they still straight? 

     

    Personally, I hate the whole gay/straight things as it's two black and white and if you are attracted to someone then go for it, and stop worrying their gender. Gender is not black and white, as we all know, and neither is sexuality. 

     

    I can't blame the guy for approaching us, he's curious and wants to see what's it like. There's nothing wrong with that. However, I would be cautious about having sex with a 'neewbie' as assuming he wants a pre-op girl, he has to know how to treat her sexually. There will be a penis there which he has to deal with, and we need a little help in the lubrication dept. Tongue out There are also many cases of guys turning on the girl afterwards because they feel guilt about having had sex with someone who has a penis. The girl has to be very cautious. 

     

     

     

    Every woman is beautiful, some show it with their faces, others show it with their hearts.
      January 13, 2014 2:27 PM GMT
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    Well Adam,

    Here are some points of advice for you;

     

    1. This site is not a place to find or arrange 'discreet' hook-ups as you refer to. The ladies here are just that ladies, it takes time to get to know them & just like other ladies they need to be treated as such.

     

    2. Having a picture of yourself on your profile helps too as it shows that your a real person too, try appearing in the chatroom & joining in the chat there.

     

    3. I suspect your previous 'experience' of Trans ladies will have been through films & unfortunatly the reality is a lot different, so be prepared for disappointment.

     

    as it has been said earlier if you are looking for a 'wham bam thanks ma'am' then tv chix would be the site for you

    Not to borrow the strength of another, nor to rely on one's own strength; to cut off past and future thoughts, and not to live within the everyday mind... then the Great Way is right before your eyes. - Yamamoto Tsunetomo
      January 13, 2014 9:14 PM GMT
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  • Everyone wants their 'tranny experience' don't they, after having seen so many TS porn movies online..........

     

    Real life just isn't like that. 

    Every woman is beautiful, some show it with their faces, others show it with their hearts.
      January 14, 2014 2:47 PM GMT
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  • Hi everyone,

    First of all I'd like to thank everyone for replying, it really is appreciated.

    Secondly I'd sincerely like to apologise to anyone I may have offended, honestly that really wasn't my intention. I didn't mean for it to sound like the beautiful women here are just a piece of meat.

    Thirdly, I see your point Cristine, I always thought I was completely straight, but maybe that's just what I'm trying to tell myself?

    See, that's one of the main reasons I came on the site, because I have never had the chance to meet or even chat to a trans before, the only people that I have been sexually attracted to are women, but the idea of a trans actually does appeal to me, so maybe I DO have a gay leaning, I'm just not sure and that is the only reason I said I would like to experiment, I can understand how that may have come accross as being quite rude and inconsiderate to members and for that I am sorry.

    Finally, I think (and of course I can't say with a guarantee because I have never been with a trans before - there's always a first time for everything) that I would very much be able to please a trans (if given the opportunity). I am more of a giver than a taker ;) lol. Other than that, if I ever did get the oportunity, that individual would hold my utmost respect, as I would be eternally greatful if that makes sense.

    Adam x

      January 16, 2014 11:56 PM GMT
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  • Ah! that's better,    Can also be ''Fatal attraction'' when you meet someone, the sex won't be your first consideration or thought,   A woman who has a sense of humour, she might be erudite and inteligent, even vaguely interesting, lol.

     

    You don't frequent gay clubs or tranny clubs, I don't either.    Would you be happy meeting all of the obove in an ordinary bar, pub, where the lady might not be a hundred percent convincing, perhaps just the voice is a give away, be prepared for strange and discerning looks could you handle that?    Relationships are not relegated to the bedroom or dark alleys, lol..

     

    Just a thought.

     

    Your just what? 23, I'm flirting and teasing, lol

    Cristine Jennifer Shye.  B/L.  B/Acc
    This post was edited by Cristine Jennifer Shye. BL at January 17, 2014 2:32 PM GMT
      January 17, 2014 10:08 AM GMT
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  • I'm impressed that you weren't frightened off by all of these comments Adam, so who knows, you might just find what you are looking for after all. 

     

    Anybody you meet, (and hopefully it's not just for sex), just treat them as a normal woman and you should have no problems, assuming you like each other to begin with! 

     

    'More of a giver than a taker....' Well, that depends on what you are giving and what you are taking doesn't it? Wink

    Every woman is beautiful, some show it with their faces, others show it with their hearts.
      January 19, 2014 3:56 PM GMT
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  • Nikki Hollm said:

    Why do so many guys who are 'straight' want to try something with a TV/TS? The only difference between us and a GG is what's between our legs and if that's the interest then are they still straight? 

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    I would say no.

     

     

      January 19, 2014 4:56 PM GMT
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  • I actually disagree. I think that guys can still be straight. It all depends on how they view the woman,i.e. a woman but with slightly different genitals, but still a woman. Others, I have no doubt are simply hiding bisexual feelings and are more at ease with a woman with a penis than they would be with a man. These people are just hiding from themselves and a liaison with them can be dangerous.  

     

    Personally, I think people should stop worrying over who they are attracted to and simply go with that attraction. If you like the person, the gender is irrelevant. Who cares what's in their knickers?

    Every woman is beautiful, some show it with their faces, others show it with their hearts.
      January 28, 2014 5:49 PM GMT
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