November 28, 2005 4:22 PM GMT
Aww thank you Meredith, though I think perhaps it’s not fair to name names, there are countless wise women on these forums.
Sandra, I agree with you that transsexualism is not strictly connected to the genitals and is more to do with the desire to present as female, as you say, the “significance of being seen as a woman”. I think you’ve got it in a nutshell there.
Personal details aside my story is similar to Laura’s, as I’m sure it is with many of us. I wanted to be a girl from my earliest memory, but transition was not an option in those days, at least not for a frightened 4-year old, so I played the game of trying to be the way I thought society expected me to be, which led to a form of self-loathing, and a mild, underlying depression. No way to live.
Though still in the early stages of transition I know that things can be better, in fact they already are. Rachel, be strong, and follow your heart, and if you find the courage to come out and be yourself, and live the way that YOU want to live, I’m confident that you will feel much better for it.
Good luck in all that you do.
xx
November 28, 2005 4:45 PM GMT
You're right, Lucy (again). There are so many wonderful people here. I guess what I meant was that whenever there is a question or topic concerning being TS, transitioning, etc., you four are the first ones in with the advice.
There is so much to learn from so many people here on TW. I've been here almost two years now and I don't know where I would be without you girls. ALL OF YOU!!!!!