February 15, 2006 8:58 PM GMT
February 10, 2006 6:21 PM GMT
First, Charllet, I feel for you. I'm sorry this is happening to you concerning your family.
Right now I'm in the beginning stages of telling my family. So far the ones who know are fine with it. That is - SO FAR. What will happen when I start on HRT? Who knows?
I've already lost a few friends over this, including my wife. Like you, I am really going through this alone as well. I have no TG friends nearby who I can see on a regular basis. Sure, I talk to some of the TW girls, like Karen Brad, but otherwise I have nobody.
This is what I have to say - we are not alone. Charllet, remember that we do have the girls here on TW. Plus, you have Anna-Marie. I realize she doesn't exactly live around the corner, but she is there for you. Whenever I feel down I think of how much these girls here have helped me. Including you.
Follow your heart. We will do what we can to help.
Mere
February 10, 2006 8:42 PM GMT
Charllet huni, it's breakin my heart to hear this. Why can't they just accept that it's somethin you have to do(even if your mum doesn't understand).After all huni,you're not a murderer or rapist you just want to live your life as you see fit without any unfair pressure from others & in this day and age it's something you should be able to do. As for your broken heart huni, if you do get to move down to Lowestoft then i'll do WHATEVER it takes to mend your broken heart.....and i really do mean WHATEVER! I just Love you SO SO much huni & i aint gonna let you go through this all on your own, What kind of a GF would i be eh my little love bug......
Love & xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx Anna-Marie
February 11, 2006 6:41 AM GMT
You may not HAVE to live without your family. People sometimes fool you with their adaptability.
That said, I have lived most of my life away from my family and am much happier than I was when we were all together. This does not mean I do not love my family members, but I would never agree to live as I did as a child. Your mileage may vary. But, trust me, there are many wonderful things in the world to enjoy and be happy about. You can't pick your family but you can pick your friends.
Give your family your best shot so that you won't feel guilty or angry at yourself later...then, if they are still unable to grow, find those who can to fill your life.
Best of luck to you, Charliet.
Isn't it amazing how much understanding modals have....to think we didn't ever think about what would happen when we came out. Geez, don't choke on your banana, rotflmao.
Hey, right now they are thinking about themselves. Give them some time, some knowledge, don't let them turn it into a fight and maybe they will start to think about you again.
February 12, 2006 12:12 AM GMT
Charllet huni, you know i'll do anything if it helps you feel happier. Girls i'd like to thank all of you for the replies to charllets post. I for one, will be by her side throughout cos i love her so very much. tis so nice to see everyone rallyin round tryin to cheer her up......thankyou ALL so much.
Love & xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx Anna-Marie
February 12, 2006 7:11 PM GMT
Charllet, have you been told anything yet like what I've heard? That friend who turned her back on me told me I need to talk to a priest, as if this will "cure" me. I didn't realize I had a disease.
I hope you're doing well.