March 9, 2006 11:47 AM GMT
You're beautiful in your photo, I would think that you'd WOW them whatever way you choose to come out. I would think the BBQ idea would work best if you had a TA-DA moment where you revealed yourself to all at one time. Get all the common questions out at one time. Afterwards you could deal with you neighbors one by one if that works for you.
Good luck dear, but oh my, do you look great.
February 28, 2006 2:25 PM GMT
Then you best prepare for it by putting the chairs in a circle around the BBQ.