I have learned already to go first when men let me. But it is more difficult to learn to go first when there are only ladies around and you happen to be one step closer to the bus or lift door than the others. Back in your head the male role master tells you to let the ladies first. Years in the male role don´t diappear overnight. I have now made this male master silent. And enter the door with a smile at my sisters.
I to have noticed this, although slightly different.
I don't think I have let another woman through the door before me unless she was infront of me.
What I have noticed is that none of the other chicks expect me to step back and let them through. Today I even have another lady open a door for me. Its was the door to the ladies and she must have seen I really needed to go!