Keef,
I love your attitude and you certainly seem to understand WHY you are attracted to us girls.
*As for myself, I did the "Guy-thing" for many years. I had an "Ovarian wife"...and Children (I raised my two Children completely by myself from when they were pre-school age) ... and denied my needs - like most of the Girls here.
You have "hit the nail on the head" when you mention "Chemistry and how we are wired". In fact, we are wired quite differently from Guys - because if we weren't, we would only be fooling ourselves each time we dress in Womens clothing.
A phrase that always seems to come to mind since I decided to finally meet my Femininity head on - is in Hamlet, Act I - Scene III ,,
"And borrowing dulls the edge of husbandry.
This above all: to thine ownself be true,
And it must follow, as the night the day,
Thou canst not then be false to any man"
** You also addressed a very important point when you stated,
"what attracts me to trans-ladies comes down to femininity - and how much more of it you have. You work at it, try harder, and turn it into an art."
For years, I could only be envious ( the "slings and arrows of outrageous fortune" ... or misfortune in my case) of the freedom given to "Ovarians" while the entire time I was busily suppressing my own freedom. I may have suppressed my own freedom for a long time - but I did not destroy "that ...which is inside."
That having been said, I believe we do have a much better sense of Femininity than most Women because we have not "taken it for granted"... and you seem to understand that.
We do try harder...because we have seen through both sides of the "looking glass"
By the way Keef, I am Leggy and a Redhead!!
LOL
Hugs
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"and my needs entwined, like ribbons of light...and I came through the doorway, some where... in the night"
<p>Doanna Highland</p>