April 18, 2003 9:24 PM BST
My mother and I were on bad terms, too, for a while. Anyway, you know your parents better than we do, so whether to tell them is up to you. As far as how to tell them (or one of them), a lot of advice is available here.
April 26, 2003 7:50 AM BST
Hi Gabrielle
The key is in your last sentence. You've got to feel good about yourself. Diversity is a good thing. The world is a better place for having you in it, don't forget that.
Good luck, whatever you choose to do about your father.
Hugs
Sarah