I have been dressing for many years now,(one of the advantages of 2 older sisters I guess). I have been involved with my partner for 5yrs and have 2 children. Funnily enough it was actually her that broached the subject, we were reading a book by Linda Sonntag called Sex Games in which there is a chapter detailing dressing the male in female clothing and vice-versa. This was how she (sort of) found out, I think she already had an idea but the problem was how to get into the subject. The book was a very easy way to do that. Now she wants to go shopping and go to salon's together. It only took a week from the first suggestion.