My favorite place to go when I am near Philly is the Tavern on Camac for Monday Nite tgirls.
Http://tgparties.com
I know a place in the poconos : www,rainbowmountainresort.com
in Allentown : www.theravennewhope.com
in Hammonton, NJ : www.clubinorout.com
in Atlantic City NJ : www.resortsac.com/party/pro-bar
a moving party that hits several places near Philly : www.tgatl2.tv
haven't been to them but know of them.