Just finished another Classic Movie - Vertigo w Jimmy Stewart and Kim Novak ! Wonderful.
I'm feeling very sad today, I was going to attend sparkle today but I chickened out at the last minute
Interestingly Briana. there is an ancient "Boy Meets World" TV episode where one of the young male stars dresses as a knockout girl and actually goes out on a date. On the date of course he garners too much attention from the guy and ends up outing himself.
He said he wasn't trying to look provocative and lead him on ... just tried to look nice in his green short dress.
You are right in that we do have an edge portraying what men want to see. It's that middle point where we have the problems. My male guy would have liked what I was wearing but how would I have handled him?