I oftan wonder why it is that , When your in love with someone little things dont seem to matter. but when your Alone like I am you notice things you never cared about more . An amazing thing happened on this day June 15 , 2012 in the town of Nieagra Falls Canada . A man with a dream performed a stunt that what concidered "insain " . He crossed the falls on a 5 / 8 steel cable from New york state to Ontario Canada in 25 min . All of this has sort of inpired me to write this blog , because it reminds me of why Im here on this site . Im shure most of you will agree that most of us here are doing the same thing "walking a wire " . that "Wire " we are walking is the "gender wire " and for some here its is not an easy as it seems . I see Myself like other here out on this wire wondering should I cross to the other side or not ? will I make it to the otherside or do I really want to do this . Im shure like any wirewalker or member here thats done SRS and HRT will tell you , once you cross you cant go back .