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I would like to speek about something that happened to me a few months ago here on this site . What I am going to be talking about may or may not offend you , but if you are I ask that you stop reading this blog . A few months ago like most members here I had been chatting with afew members and then was left alone with one other member . We chatted about this and that and then the real topic began . Our topic was about there relationship with this other member here . As most girls here that know me well I take pride in there TRUST in me as I do in them . I have NEVER had a problem with any of my coments to others alone in a chat room befor . If I seem a tad upset its because of the trust that I had with my sisters here is now "uncertain " . I had comented to this person about MY personal opion and it was re told to this other member . What really upsets me is the acusations from this person that I have it "OUT " for them or that I dis like them . None of this is true I am like anyone here concerned for there well beeing . It troubles me that thoes who I call close friends would use something that ive said againts me to cause harm to my good reputation . I had promised that I would not blog about this matter , but I feel this story needs to be told . Im not trying to hurt the feelings of thoes who are involved nor i am trying to gain anything . what I am trying to say is we all ask for someones advise . Sometimes we do it with another member alone one on one . what we tell this person out of goodness and friendship of our hearts . should be taken as that "just advice " and not as gossup or as a way to hurt someones reputation or feelings . As you can tell my feeling are still hurt and tender and its because I feel that I did nothing wrong by offering my help . I am not asking for any aplogie from thoes involved it is totaly in there hands if they chose to do so .
