Sorry, but we don't know when someone is genuine or not, unfortunately some of us have been conned, taken advantage of in the past. So we don't contribute to go fund me pleas, but if you are genuine in your support of a friend, good luck.
I understand completely and didn't really expect to get much response on it, but I figured nothing ventured is nothing gained...hopefully she and I can figure it out, she already had the surgery pushed back a couple months to give us time