March 5, 2003 9:26 AM GMT
Anessa,
You said:
Its doing my head in. I am attracted to the opposite sex, but am more consumed by my obession. I am completely consumed by it. Will the feelings go away? How far do I take this? I know the answers to these questions but refuse to face the issue. I want more, but the further I explore the worst I get.
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We all know excatly how you feel. Some of us are straight, some gay, some bi, some TV, some TS, but I think it fair to say that we are all consumed by our obsession.
The feelings will never go away (trust me, I'm a trannie.) I've been dressing for about 35 years and I never believed when I was a teenager that I would still be doing it all these years on.
As for exploring further, I have found that whenever I try something new, I get a buzz out of it for a short while and then I have to go a bit further still.
My only regret is not enjoying my trannie life even more when I was younger. You can't turn the clock back, so enjoy yourself while you can!
As others have said, let your partner know. If she loves you, then hopefully she can live with it and it's better than building a relationship on lies and deceit.
Hugs
Lisa
September 10, 2002 3:20 PM BST
:)Hi Stevie
My Parents know tha I dress, but I have not told them I'm A trany yeat, and right now I'd better not sence I stil live with them, you know how that is.
Hope to hear from you soon.
Your Girl in arms:
Samantha
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September 14, 2002 7:16 PM BST
samantha, you will find a wealth and depth of different experiences and advice here.
there are good people in the world, they are just sometimes hard to find.
i think you could class stevie as "good people".
hope things keep on ever upwards for you. dont lose sight of what is important.
cos losing sight is easy to do.....
March 5, 2003 12:01 AM GMT
Hi sweetheart. Saw that you live in missouri. If you would like some info on friendly spots to go out in St. Louis let me know. There are a few, some better than others. I date a very attractive tv named Angela Foxx. We have a few restaraunts and clubs we really enjoy. So don't feel like your lost, there are some great places to go when you do get out.
April 22, 2004 2:28 AM BST
Yes stevy I would like to know of some spots in St. Louis that are frindly plese tell all. And thanks for all your suport.
SAM
March 2, 2003 9:15 PM GMT
True.
January 18, 2003 9:09 AM GMT
Hi Phylis
Welcome.
You've come to the right place. We're all very relaxed here. Hang around and get to know us.
Best wishes
Sarah
January 17, 2003 7:13 PM GMT
hi all my name is phylis anne and i am now 60 years old and when i am dressed i really feel like 45,i have been dressing on and off for a long time and i just told my wife about myself and have since come out,about myself i have been in the military .i served in the united states navy during vietnam and have lived in israel where i also was in their army,i belong to a few groups in the nyc area where i go to their meetings ,i love to wear skirts and dresses and i am always looking for new things to wear well thats a little about me love phylis2
September 10, 2002 4:48 AM BST
Hi Samantha.
I'm just curious about something you said. You mentioned that your parents forbid you to dress. Does that mean they know you're a tranny and won't let you dress, or does that mean that they don't know about you, but you know they wouldn't allow it? I just wondered...
I've read some of your other posts, and I'm glad you found this site. Good luck.
January 12, 2003 8:23 AM GMT
Hi Anessa
Glad to here you are feeling better about yourself. Take care, you do seem to be on an extra-ordinary high at the moment and it won't last. You'll need to start preparing yourself for dealing with your fiance.
By the way, what's a "CS shop"?
Best wishes
Sarah
January 8, 2003 7:14 PM GMT
Hi Anessa
Welcome.
You do sound in a bit of a way. I guess you haven't told your fiance?
If you read around the experiences on TrannyWeb you'll find that most girls find that hiding it from loved ones is a recipe for disaster, even if it takes a long time. As you say
I know the answers to these questions but refuse to face the issue.
I think this post is your way of starting to face the issues.
Whatever you do, take your time to think about it and how you are going to do it. Down at the bottom of this board is a forum for advice from Grace Noble. She may be able to help you.
Best wishes
Sarah
September 13, 2002 7:07 AM BST
September 26, 2002 2:46 PM BST
hi sam
been a while since we talked last it freaks my mom and dad out to but after a while if they really love you they will accept you for who you really are. My wife and kids are what really worried me most but my wife has been so supportive and my kids love haveing two moms.It has really brought my family closer because i dont have to hide my feelings i can cry during movies and express who i really am im free to be my self and explore my woman hood like i have allways wanted to. You will eventally come out because its something you cant hide all your life i found that out the hard way by trying to be something im not a man. If you are truely transexual you cant keep it in you for ever it will tear you up inside and eat at you. The more you pretend to be male instead of female the more problems you will encounter in life. It feels so good to be free and i hope one day you will be able to be free.
love kelly
September 11, 2002 1:41 AM BST
Just tell me if you'd rather not talk about this, but I find it interesting. So, do they think you are an occasional cross dresser, as opposed to a full-time (not living full-time, but thinking and feeling full-time) transvestite? How did they find out, and exactly how did they handle it? Again, please excuse me if I'm prying.