April 29, 2005 4:31 AM BST
I'll echo the previous statements and say that's it's a good thing you were in a public place with someone who could quickly come to your aid. I think receiving unwanted attention goes with the territory, but it's usually harmless. While out at various night clubs, I've been hugged, kissed, stroked, etc. by men I'd just been introduced to, and even total strangers. However forward they might've been, it was clear their intentions were not hostile, so I just took the gestures as the compliments they were. Straight or gay, men will be men. So far, no one has gone too far with me.
Unfortunately, we always have to be wary of creeps, and the first line of defense is realizing that there's a good amount of safety in numbers. Staying aware, keeping our wits about us (not getting drunk), and avoiding being alone while out are the best ways to avoid bad situations. Like Wendy, I'm also prepared for worst case scenarios, but I realize that option isn't legally available in all areas.
So, Rikki, did you remember to tip your bartender that night?