April 25, 2005 5:04 AM BST
Nancy,
"This persons...." You lost me. Who were you speaking about. Someone without a name? I'm guessing you referred to Ziggy, but I'm not certain.
I also read Ziggy's posts with interest, for Ziggy is, like her chosen icon, trying to open people's eyes and minds to social inequities for TG folk, and the dark side we often do not talk about. The pain and loneliness and isolation that haunts so many of our lives. Acceptance in twenty years is not enough for some of us. Some of us will be dead before that happens. The past two weeks alone I have talked to three TW members who stood with their hand on the doorknob of death's door. These are serious matters. Perhaps she seems harsh at times, but she also works hard at getting people to look at themselves. This may be hard for some people to deal with (truthfully, Ziggy there are times I don't know if I want to hug you or hit you with a stick and I suspect that is exactly the reaction you want
) but I do not want Ziggy to stop expressing her feelings, Nancy, any more than I want you to. I would think that you, if anyone, would understand the effects of frustration over something important to you. When I get upset by a post I stop and say....why do I feel this way about that? It usually teaches me something about myself. My getting angry at a post I disagree with teaches me nothing. I do, but like with this current issue, I try to look for a constructive outlet and understanding and not attack someone. It's not always easy, but I think it's best. Now I'm going to finish an emaii to a TW sister and see if I can give her a reason to live another week. If you wish, you can all continue to fight over this major issue of transgenderism. (see, i can get mad)
Laura, you called FOUR of them? You little devil!