I have thought about it for years and I am sooo ready. The trouble is the erectile dysfunction, It doesnt concern me, but I am afraid my S.O. will not take to the idea as well as i would like. I dread this discussion , i really love him , we have been together almost 20 years, I am in my late 30's and i need to make a decision before I waste too much more time being in a body I cant stand. anyone dealt with this problem before, how did it turn out, is there a place to get free counseling for this, am i being selfish , all kidding aside, this has me more depressed than i have ever been , and i just see time slipping away , I hope I am making sense..... any suggestions..