don't care if you laugh at me. I think BDSM is an important subject. It deserves better than being chosen as the title for an innocuous thread about testing people's reflexes. All that happens is that you create lots of disappointed punters who are drawn in by an exciting title and find something quite mundane. I wonder if you would have had quite so many visitors if you'd called the thread "My partner tests my reflexes in an over-enthusiastic manner"?
not laughing, well not at you anyway, BDSM is an important subject, there have been whole books written on it, dunno if anyones ever read them though, not when you can whack someone with them anyway.
as for disappointed punters, ahh well you pays your money etc, besides i spend ages appointing my punters, guess disappointing them goes with the territory.
your thread title suggestion is actually quite good, though for some reason it made me think of a public information film by Mr. Chumley-Warner. which could actually be pretty good really.
serious discussion? maybe, if anyone wants to start one I'll take part, as my better half knows its something I mess about with for a laugh (hard to keep a straight face, and I couldn't dominate a rice pudding), theres at least one other person on this site who knows that I know a bit about BDSM, though mostyl stuff I've investigated as opposed to taken part in.
I like seeing the inside of peoples minds
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