April 20, 2008 6:51 PM BST
Hi Emma,
as you are 26 and some people are seeing you as really female then you really need to get to your GP and get referred to a psycho to see about transitioning.
Your Mum isn't surprised to find fem stuff so she is partly reconciled ot the idea that you're too much of a girl so she will help if you just sit down and have a really good talk with her. And as she is well aware of your secret fem side she can vouch for your feelings with the GP/psychos etc.
Don't waste more years with worry and shame and wondering if.
Have you been to all the local TS friendly bars to check out how the others transpeople look, act and are accepted?
Then can you see yourself doing that and enjoying it and the hassles that might go along with it.
At least you haven't mentioned hormones
so stay away from those until your GP can get you to the psycho and then to the endo and then see about getting hormones.
Do something tomorrow...not next...er....next...er.....etc
Have a good read throught www.mtftransition.com and print it off for Mum and your GP then you'll all know everything you need to know.
April 20, 2008 7:05 PM BST
One way to get it out is to know what your going to say. Sit down with pen & paper. Write it out> you can take your time this way so that when the time comes you'll know what to say. Also be ready to answer questions about yourself. Have info ready about transexualism.
Just being prepared will help give you convidence.
April 20, 2008 9:05 PM BST
Time to get out there as a woman Emma and see how it makes you feel. It's too soon to talk about transitioning until you know you are comfortable just doing the everyday things as a woman first. If you are, then you should look at exactly what you want and start going about getting it.
Nikki