I actually consider myself new to the transgender community although I believe I was born this way and have pursued transition for just over 5 years now. Prior to coming to TW I had nobody to to talk to about my circumstances. Since that time I have met numerous others like myself both in person and online. I have also seen a uniform desire that each of us be allowed to be the person we were born as. Nonetheless, we each likely started off alone, fearing what the world outside our closets would think of us.
Those who have known me since the beginning such as Robyn, know just how far I have gone. I consider myself fortunate, very fortunate. I believe I have succeeded if you want to call it that. Yet I know my journey is not over, it will go on the rest of my life because I face the same discrimination and hatred as the rest of you.
So where is this babble leading? I have to ask everyone here, who do you expect to make this world a better place for you? It is going to take more than Marsha and Robyn writing their congressmen. It is going to take more than an organization of gays and lesbians who don't care about the transgender to change things for you. So many talk about how we should have equal rights, yet do absolutely nothing to help themselves. You are waiting for something, somebody else, just anyone but you. You want it for nothing. The fact is you get nothing for nothing.
My favorite saying has always been, "This is not all fun and games." If you really care about your transgender community, it is time to stop waiting and and watching, but instead, do something.
Hugs,
Marsha